The real truth behind Harmony Station The model train store
The Real Story Behind
Harmony Station The Model Train Store.
107 E. Broad Street
Greensboro, Ga. 30642
The way I had grown up was to take a person’s word for gold. Yes this is the western way and well according to city life a stupid way for there are too many people after your money, your personal possessions, and to screw you every which way they can think of.
Since I’ve moved to Georgia, I had a lot of money in my pocket but while living in Georgia since 92, I seemed to have done one mistake time and again. This is to listen to a sob story to make me feel sorry for the person, then they turn around and use me for all they can get out of me or plain out tell me lies.
Well those days are over for me. Yes I had a boyfriend in my life, yes at one point and time I trusted him with whole heart, mind and soul and loved him dearly but since we opened Harmony Station, all I get from him is empty promises, lies and deceipt. Same with everyone else I’ve ever known.
Bobby has used me for all of his wants in life knowing how much I wanted to accomplish my dreams and goals, in which he promised to help me first upon opening up Harmony Station. He made me feel sorry for him, telling me about his hearing loss and that one-day very soon he won’t be able to hear any more and he would loose his job.
Well this very same day mind you we were talking to a publisher about publishing my book and I was $2,000.00 just shy of having enough money to publish my one of my books. (He is too afraid to go to the doctor and have surgery. He then makes excuses that he can not afford it for where he works he does have insurance. He says it crappy but I feel that I know better than that. This too is a lie. He is just to lazy or just to scared to have surgery to have his hearing corrected.. I’ve talked to doctors about this and they all say he can have his hearing corrected and he would be able to hear, that he would be home that same day with out having to take to much time off from his job at Oconee Sand and Gravel.
This very same day after finding out that I didn’t have enough to publish one of my books, he kept making me feel bad with his sob story about his hearing as we drove around looking at store fronts. It didn’t dawn on me what I was doing, I was so madly in love with him and he kept promising me of how much money is in model trains and layout tables we would make. That "He would make me a very rich woman."
So dummy me had taken all of my money that was my life savings and invested it into getting Harmony Station up and running thus thinking that I would one day double my money to be able to support myself. Well putting trust into him I had just gotten my taxes of 3,700.00 back that i wanted to put with the rest of my money and publish my book. Now mind you I do not work. I am living on $520.94 a month alimony till March of 07.
What other money I had in my bank account that I had saved up by working here and there. Cleaning houses, writing articles and selling them, saving aluminum cans, raking leaves for friends in Covington, Ga. working on farms of mucking out stalls, grooming horses, doing very dirty work and getting paid to clean out my ex husbands rig, doing lawn that he paid me for, yard sales etc. I did everything i could to save to move out of my ex husbands house and on my own and saved big time. I had $2,000.00 saved in a three-year time in my savings at the time of meeting Bobby at a rodeo in Shady Dale.
I didn’t want to touch this money at all. In the mean time of leaving my ex husband, I was putting up food every time I went to Bj’s warehouse or Sam's Club so when I moved out of my ex’s house, which I had planned to do to move by my self, I would have enough food to carry me over until some job came along. My freezer was jam packed full of food, I estimate I had a little over 4,000.00 worth of food put up for me and my dog.
Any way I met Bobby in June of 06 at a rodeo where he told me that he was not only was a country boy, but a cowboy. We started going together and he wanted to marry me and wanted me to move in. (I see now why.) Any way I put a little over $4,000.00 of food in the house because his cupboards were empty.
I bought them both, he and his son cloths and now I opened up this store and paid a little over $8,000.00+ to open up Harmony Station which was/is Bobby’s dream back in August of 06, with promises that I would have steady employment and a great income to support myself on. So I decided to take my money that I had in my savings account and put it as a down payment on the store and purchase our first stock, signs, licenses etc.
In November 06, Bobby needed money to purchase Christmas stock for the store. We both were flat broke for I went and used up not only every penny i had in my bank account, but nineteen dollars of my bank account. I used all of my taxes of $3,700.00, Sopme money I had owed my ex husband in the amount of $700.00, I sold my horse, my best friend Bo for $3,000.00 plus $1,800.00 in alimony checks on top of still purchasing food for he and Bj his son who eat like pigs might I add.
Bobby had chipped in a little bit of his own money, a grand total at this time of 3,000.00 until he fell behind in the bills, where he was getting court summons's at the house. He had fallen behind in water bill which I had to pay and catch up, electric bills etc. and this included my camper payment were I am storing my camper that he so proudly promised to pay for when I moved in. As he had promised to take care of me and support me when we first met. So I caught my camper rent up finally on my camper payment and am making payments all though he promised he could take care of me. He promised that he would pay my camper rent etc. Yeah right.
Any way he tried to obtain a few of investors, who were well off to get them to invest. No one wanted to help him. Finally he went to a friend of his from high school. This man works for the GA Farm Bureau and the man took out some money from his retirement savings at work. This caused a bunch of problems with Bobby and me, and he and his wife, This fellow IO know from adam nor have I ever met him had wanted collateral.
Well Its still causing problems with Bobby and I. I've given Bobby until February 1st, 07 to get my title of my pickup truck back or else I will go to the authorities with both a copy of the bogus contract and proof which I have and give it to them and take care of this my way, then both men will be in deep trouble. I want my truck title back.
I've fallen out of love with Bobby as well and am waiting on a Federal Grant to obtain my dreams and goals including purchasing some land for sick and injured animals and build a home of my own. I was looking for just land but as of recent, I will be looking for something with a home on it and move out as quickly as possible if I can last that long. There is to much tension in the house to even enjoy life and ever be happy. Plus why live with someone if you don't love them any longer. Here is when Bobby asked me if I would build him a home on my land so that he could rent out his house. I asked him. "Are you going to work on my ranch?" his reply then was "No. I am going to be at the store all day long." Well on my future ranch, no one lives for free. They will have a paycheck and free accomodations but will have their own bills to pay such as electric, car insurance, phone service etc. Everyone who lives on my ranch will work on my ranch. Bobby thought that I was going to give him a free ride, build him a home so he wouldn't have house note to pay and then bring in money from his moble home trailer, pay off his mortgage and live scott free on me. I set him straight from the git go.
Bobby didn’t want to put up the deed to his house what he has now, which is the only collateral he has. Instead Bobby called me on the phone remembering what I had told him a few months ago, about putting up my title when we first opened the doors, beliveing in Harmony Station. After seeing no customers in the store until just a few weeks ago in November, well I had changed my mind in using my pickup truck.
This fellow I do not know from adam wanted some collateral, so Bobby promised his friend he had collateral MY pickup truck that he so graciously took over since the day we met.
Bobby got on the phone with me wanted my pickup truck title, we argued and argued about it and I kept telling him "NO, I was not putting up my pickup for a failing store."
He then came home got the title to my pickup which I refused to sign. He told me to "Get the F out of his house if I didn't want to help him". This made me even more mad and more upset than I already was so I quickly scribbled my name on it which doesn’t look like my hand writing and threw it at him and told him to well you know.
Now his friend has my title to my truck, which is in my name, a bogus contract about being able to sell my pickup truck, which he listed as "Bobby’s (his) automobile title, and my name is not on contract nor did I sign any contract. All I signed sloppily was my truck title. Which is not my signature at all. Bobby’s name is not on my pickup truck title. (Grand theft auto and theft here) then in the so- called contract it has two business names, Harmony Crossing and Harmony Station. So this contract is very much null and void. That this fellow can sell my business, I had put my life savings into.
I swear on my granddaddy’s grave, if anything happens to my pickup I will file suit on both men and both will be sitting pretty in jail and loose everything they ever had or worked for plus their jobs and families. This I promise (We westerners keep our word on everything) all because someone I trusted to the max had betrayed me and lied to me. Along with lying to others to get what he wants in life. He even lied to all of the customers, telling them that I was his wife. He had me put Debby Allen on all of the documents, and use his name. He was ashamed to have a girlfriend and told me that its not good for business. I didn't want to but went along with it to please him. I am so sorry for this everyone. I should have never used his name or deceived you all as well. But I wanted to keep peace and keep him happy. I hate lying or deceiving others. Not the western way at all. please accept my apologies.
This is when I lost all love for Bobby but yet tell him I love him, and can not stand to be around him nor do I want to be around him. I do not like Liars, cheaters and theives. I do not care to be around them either.
So as of late I was contacted that I qualify for a federal grant, which I will be getting. Then I will purchase my own land, make it into a ranch for sick and injured animals and a boarding stable etc. and leave Bobby and his son. I am hoping a home will be on it as well to where I can move out as quickly as possible. I do not enjoy living with him or his son any longer, I do not love him any longer so hey why not get rid of my ess baggage by making me happy for a change. I certainly can not be happy where I am. It’s like living and working in a prison free of charge. Heck I do not make an income here because he takes all of the money off the sales of trains. Nor will I be making an income on the initial investment that I had made in this business as I am supposed to be doing or was promised that I would do. Once again empty promises and lies. The only thing i get is 100.00 every time he sells a layout tables and completes it. How often does he do a layout table? he's done a grand total of 5 of them since Harmony Station had opened its doors. He is not making payments to me, he is not giving me half of the sales when he sells anything in the store or at train shows etc., he keeps all of that money. so I am screwed big time.
Bobby is not getting any of the grant money, he is not moving in with me, I am not building him a home on my ranch nothing like he wants me to do while he rents out his house. I am not helping him ever again. NEVER.
NOR WILL I HELP ANYONE ELSE EVER AGAIN.
All I want is my pickup truck title back and my initial investment of $8,000.00+ back, which Bobby only agrees to pay me $3700.00 in installments from layout table sales of $100.00 each time. He does not want to consider me as a partner or make me a partner by signing a partnewrship agreement. He does not want to be bound legally which I’ve asked him to do. He does not want to give me any of the proceeds after the investments are paid but thinks we will still be together after I move onto my ranch, that I will be going to trade shows with him, and travel with him. He doesn’t want to give me a wage for sitting in this store working for him either.
Bobby has promised to pay for my pickup but knowing Bobby, I will end up paying off this debt as well just to make sure my pickup truck title is safely in my hands again. I know how Bobby does things if its not his, he will pay on it for two months then fall behind then I will end up paying his friend for my pick up truck title. No way, I am done giving and trusting any one, now come next month I will be leasing land and boarding horses, I will have responsibilities to animals to take care of them and feed them. He's also told me to "sit back and collect the money from the store." yeah right. he never did find me that land i was supposed to lease as he promised to do. he just dropped it and has not helped me nor said anything toward finding me some land so that I can start boarding horses. Its now the end of February and he promised to help me, but has not.
As far as I am concerned Bobby and I are done with.
As far as his friend is concerned he too will be in deep trouble if he sells or attempts to sell my truck and take my business and sells it as well. In all rights. I own Harmony Station. I’ve paid in a little over $8,000.00+ plus $5,000.00 for my pickup while Bobby has only put in a grand total of $4,000.00 if that until he started making sales on trains and layout tables and now the store is supporting its self and paying its own bills. This is November 06 & December of 06.
NOTHING BETTER HAPPEN TO MY PICKUP TRUCK. ITS NOT BOBBY’S TO SELL NOR HIS FRIENDS PICKUP TO SELL IF BOBBY FALLS BEHIND IN PAYMENTS.... I WILL SUE THE CRAP OUT OF BOTH AND SEE TO IT THEY BOTH ARE LOCKED UP IN JAIL TO ROT. ON TWO CHARGES THE FIRST CHARGE for Grand Theft Auto, the other charge for theft in general.
Both men have no right at any of my personal property. I also am not married to Bobby Allen as well thus making it illegal for Bobby to do any transactions with my personal property. Bobby kept running around telling our custoomers that I am married to him. No I was only engaged to him up until the beginning of November when I realized what was going on.
February 1st, 2007 is coming real fast which is the deadline I've given Bobby Allen to get my truck title back to me or I will pursue legal action against both men. Alot of people will be affected by his stupidity and greed.
December 2nd, 2006
After reading what I had put on the old company website, which he had me delete (This should tell you all something. He's trying to hide the truth from not only possible customers but customers now), he told me this morning that yes "after I am paid off he will still be sharing the profits for 20 years or how ever long Harmony Station will be in business if we stay together. If it wasn't me who helped him get into business and using my money, he wouldn't have no business. It would only be fair for me to also make a profit off of this business since I've not only sat here in the store baby sitting it while he works Oconee Sand and Gravel but had helped him financially to build and acquire this store and his shop which he had also dreamed of doing all his life." Still no signed partnership agreement have we signed yet because he doesn’t want to be legally bound to me in his empty promises, which I've been asking for. His shop? His business?
He still is using my pickup truck and I told him that he has until February 1,
2007 (This was at Christmas December 26th, 2006 after I kept asking for it back since November 2006 to get my title back or I will be going to the police. I will as well as Defac about his boy. Well 18 more days and I go to the police with this information then hire an attorney. He keeps telling me he will talk to the man next week. Yeah right at first it was he was going to talk to the man this weekend 1/13/07 now its next week he will talk to this fellow. "Not to worry him with it."
He's since then moved my business from 899 Harmony Rd Eatonton, to 107 E. Broad Street in Greensboro Ga. With out my consent or consulting with me. He won’t even give me a key to the new building or let me near the new building, I had to hunt it down today. He's taken off with my business, my money and now my truck. HOW STUPID COULD I HAVE BEEN GEESH....
For Model Train Enthusiasts::::::
If I were you, I would not deal with a person who not only lies all of the time, but steals others things for his benifit. The address is HARMONY STATION, 107 E. BROAD STREET, GREENSBORO, GA, 30642. Warning Please Stay away...
WHO WOULD WANT TO DO DEALINGS WITH A PERSON WHO RIPS OTHERS OFF, TAKES THEIR BUSINESS AND HAD DONE THE ABOVE TO HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND. HE IS NOTHING BUT A CHEAT, LIAR, CON ARTIST AND A THEIF AND PERSONALLY, I WOULDN'T DO BUSINESS WITH HIM KNOWING ALL THAT HAS GONE ON IN THIS POST. I WISH THAT I WOULD HAVE NEVER MET HIM.......
HIS NAME IS BOBBY ALLEN WHO IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED WHAT SO EVER. AND LADIES, SHOULD YOU APPROACE HIM DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH HIM, FOR ALL HE IS AFTER IS MONEY, SUPPORT AND SEX. HE LOOKS DOWN WOMANS SHIRTS IN THE GROCERY STORE TO GET A PEEK OF YOUR FRONTS. THIS IS HOW CRAZY THIS MAN IS. THIS I GOT FIRST HAND OFF OF ANOTEHR WOMAN.
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS MY NEW EMAIL ADDRESS richardsondebby@bellsouth.net I placed a picture of this jackass who stole from me big time at the bottom of this site. The sum of $13,000.00+ in total including my truck title and 4,000 in food that I brought with me and put in his house. Heck the man can’t even purchase breakfast food for his son BJ but can purchase over $1,000 in MTH products to put in my store off his bonus check. and $100.00 in candy as a Christmas present for BJ as well to eat and live on because he doesn’t have to fork over dental bills, the state of Georgia does.
I hope what he is telling me is true but I know better and as Grand Daddy used to say. "I will believe this when I see it." until then I do not accept lies. He's a liar and I am not falling for his crap any longer
Well I can forget about being paid back, there are new developments to this saga. Two months ago he was served with papers from the Green County Sheriff's Dept. for non payment on his bedroom suit. He went to the court hearing and asked the judge to let him make payments.
1/9/07
He wants to get back together and get things the way they used to be. Yes I will play his lonely game but when I am able to get out of "His House" and get moved I will no longer wish or want to be near him, see him, etc. for I will have nothing ever to give him ever again. Not even a shoulder to lean on since he can not be honest with me and has to sneak around moving my business and disallowing me near it to help out. So onward and up ward to a better life, not a trailer trash life.
Then on 1-9-07 he told me that "If I do not give him what he wants (and we all know what those two things are) that he is not going to help me around here or do things for me" This is considered Blackmale wouldn't you say? or a form of Blackmale.
I've been packing my things and putting them in my camper and purchasing my own food and not bringing it to the house here for them to eat. I took out whatever food of mine was left and put that up as well. I am getting ready to move and looking for a job besides.
Last Sunday 1-7-07 He had gotten served once again by Providian financial services and is due in court again. I personally took the summons in hand when the sheriff's dept delivered it for he was gone to the new store. People wants dealings with a man who can not pay his bills? if I would have known earlier what I know now would have never went out with the freak.
1/16/07
Well Bobby is at it again with lies. I guess he lives with in a lye. Today while working at Oconee Sand and Gravel, his regular job, he went out and purchased a white dodge automobile, he called me up at noon or there after and then told me to take him down to get his new car which he is so proud of. I asked him where did he get the money, I thought he was broke. Then I made the statement "must be nice to have money." He then told me he made the transaction on a signature promise". Now this is coming from a man who supposedly can not pay me my money back nor a 5,000.00 loan to his friend, but can pay 1,200.00 for a car.
He must think I am really stupid. No one does a signature loan any longer and him with a 1,600.00 judgement on his head as well he has money he is not telling anyone about. Where is my share of $13,000.00????? Start paying me instead of paying me 100.00 every time you sell a layout to locals.
So he spends most of his time at his new "Play house" trying to act the businessman he is not. Then has the nerve to take me to a movie on Sunday and out to eat just so he can get some hanky panky out of me. Wrong no more. When I find a job and am able to move out, I will make sure its 111 miles from here and after he moves me, I then will tell him that I want nothing to do with him ever nor see him ever again. Heck, he's used me for everything I've got, why not use him?
6:00 P.M.
I could not hold back a lie any longer, Bobby kept on telling me that he would talk to his friend about my title. That he was going to talk to him last week. He didn't, he said he was going to talk to him this past weekend, didn’t, so I sent his friend an email letting him know the conditions that if I do not have my truck title back by Feb 1, 07 I will go to the sheriffs dept. That if Bobby goes down he will go down and i have all proof as to what I am saying a folder an inch thick of paperwork to give to the judge. Lets see if I do not get my pickup truck title back by next week.
Bobby doesn’t know I've done this yet, but I could not hold back a lie any longer, was taught to be honest in everything I do. So well we will see what happens. I know one thing, Bobby will surely kick me out now for contacting his friend when he finds out. Hope I find a good job by then.
1/22/2007 7:20 PM
Well Bobby has 9 more days to get my truck title back to me, which he has not mentioned a word to me. I had not bugged him in a while, I did however over the phone tell him how I felt once again and am not a happy camper that I do not have my truck title before now since the warning on December 26th, 06 that I had given him.
Marty has not responded to my email which I know he already received as of today’s date, and its been a week.
While talking with Bobby, he promised me, which I do not believe him until I see the title in my hands that he will have my truck title back in my hands to me by Friday the 26th of January of 2007 as long as I do not bring up the subject again. I should not “worry him with it.” I told him topic is closed until then which now I am not going to say a word. He has until a week from this Thursday to get that title back in my hands or to the sheriffs department I go with proof and all paperwork in hand.
So again I will believe this when I see it. Am not in a good mood right at the moment for he is all promises and bull and no actions. I am so upset about all going on. I don’t want to cook for him and his son. He is pitching a fit about this thus telling me "I don’t help him out". Heck why should I? I am not a slave, he doesn’t do a thing for me or around here. He is gone at that stupid store 6 days a week lying to me that he is working on a layout when this past Saturday, he finally built the layout thus telling me all week that he was going to deliver this layout to the customer this past weekend. Then he throws it up in my face that he is letting me stay here for free, I said "What? I’ve more than paid my rent here. I’ve brought 4,000.00 of food in this house and then he said I should be helping him while I am here and that he noticed that I have not been putting food in the house."
Now I am on foodstamps and I am not supposed to be feeding neither one of them, I stopped and have been storing this food for when I move out. This he is not happy about. Tough tiddly winks. I support no man. Then he tells me that I never do anything for him or help him out, I replied," who was the one who helped you in the yard yesterday chopping wood, and helping you finally clean up the yard until it started pouring out? I don’t do a thing around here. Ha yeah right. I do more than your lazy son who sits in his room playing video games all day while he and I are out there working until we are dead".
That kid is so lazy and Bobby lets him get away with murder around here thus babying a 15 yr old boy who wants a car when he is sixteen. This is really a joke, the kid doesn't want to take responsability here at the house lord help us when Bobby gives him the new car he just bought when he is sixteen years old. remind me to stay off of the roads then. Remind me to Stay off of the roads when Bobby gives his son Bj the white dodge car he just purchased in siox months as Bobby is planning to do. Every one stay off of the roads. (sorry had to put a little humor in this.)
Well we will see if he keeps his promise but I know for a fact this is just words to get me off of his back about my pickup truck. But no more words will be said, if I do not next Thursday I will take action against him and his friend. Not caring what happens after this to his son or me. Lets give the kid anything he wants to buy his love instead of him earning his way and working for his own car like most of us have to do. Bj a 15 yr old boy cries when he doesnt get his way or something like an exbox that he wanted for Christmas. Hahaha that kid is going to end up in jail when he is older. I can see it already. He loves to do as daddy does and follow in daddies footsteps, he even copies everything that Bobby does the way he eats, etc. and sits next to his dad when we are watching tv like he is gay or something. Makes me wonder what really goes on at Harmony Station lol.
I brought to Bobbys attention today that Bj is going to turn out gay the way Bj acts at times, or most of the time.. Bobby's replly If Bj turns out gay he will support this in his son. Its non of my busienss the way he is raising his son." Me I would worry about this big time if I were him.
01/23/2007 10:02 AM
After me not being around Bobby all night for I went into a different rooms and I totally ignored him as if he weren't in the house. I told him what goes on in this house is non of my business any longer unless it involves me and didn’t even kiss him today goodby like normal when he went off to work. I just waved at him. While he was at home, I didn’t pay him any attention etc.
He just called me. He says that "He got my truck title back from his friend that I will have it in my hands when he gets home from work this evening ." Ha this I will believe when I have the baby in my hands."
I told him I was happy that he got my truck title back but had reserved myself to sound like I was happy but not over joyed. Not until I see my pick up truck title back in my hands then put into a safe deposit box where he can not get a hold of it ever again. Also why do I have to wait for it? Why not drop it off now? He picked it up at this time when he wanted it. Why do I have to wait? This is just like Bobby Allen. When he wants something its now, when others want something its later.
So we will see what happens later on when he gets home from work. This doesn’t pay the $13,000.00 he owes me or gives me back my store, but I can take a loss on this and start all over financially. This way I can find a job with ease of mind that my grand fathers pickup truck that I had inherited is not going to get sold when Bobby fails at Harmony Station for lack of payment to his friend.
8:30 p.m.. Well Bobby Allen finally did something right for a change. He finally kept his word on one thing since I've known him. He did bring in my title and it is now in my hands and in a very safe place where no one can get to it except me.
I really can not afford to take a $13,000.00 loss but if need be, I will, I will just to get out of this situation, but first I must find a job which I've been on three interviews thus far and have applied at 43 places thus far. In the mean time I have one more alimony check coming and I can put most of that away but it won't be enough to get me on my feet. But well its a start and that’s all I care about. Or until the paperwork for the grant comes in which I do hope its real soon, then I can move 111 miles away from here and start my own dreams that I have planned like my rescue ranch and such and then next year publish some of my books etc.
I then will be living my life instead of someone else's life for a change. Never again will chance going out with a man again, I just assume be lonely by my self with my dog and my animals, this way its less problems in my life.
I will keep you all updated as to what happens next in this saga for its still going lol. But at least I now have my pickup truck title in my hands and hidden.
Personally I would not do business with a man who steals, cheats, lies and blackmales others to get what he wants. He wants to hide the plain out truth from his customers and future customers but yet do honest business, when he is not an honest man at all. This is the reason he shut down his old website or had it shut down.
Do not go and do business with him, he stole my business and my life savings. I am not married to the creep as well like he has been going around telling others we are. Now I am out not of only $13,000.00 which he has until April 1,07 to get back to me but he also is not going to file last years taxes. I also am now his ex girlfriend trying my hardest to get out of this situation never to return. He has lost me as a friend and girlfriend for he literally screwed me. I will file, I have the original receipts and I am not going to jail for tax evasion on Harmony Station.
Sunday Jan. 28th 2007
Well I guess you might as well call this an online log now until I am able to move out. But good ole Bobby Allen just kicked me out of the house and I will be sleeping in my car tonight. have no where here to go. He stole all of my money and my buisiness so I am flat broke. thats right Bobby Allen, take me for all I've Got then leave me and use me for your own pleasures in life. Don't forget. """"What comes around goes around.""""" God will see to it that you will be punished one way or another. Especiall come judgement day.
He thinks he has a lot of friends. No he has a lot of enemies for he uses all of his friends until he doesnt pay them back or visit them any longer for 15 yrs then calls on them when he is in need of them. friends, Bobby Allen has no friends nor will he have me as a friend for when I leave here I want nothing at all to do with him, no phone calls, no visits etc. I was the only true friend Bobby Allen had, now that is gone.
if he gets on my wrong side. DEFAC for one, the sheriffs for two and jail for three. call it theft,
attempted grand theft auto, theft of my business and neglect of his son which i have pictures mind you.
giving a 15 yr. old kid 100.00 in candy over christmas all because he doesn't have to pay the dentist, Well Care does. Wasting our tax payer money isn't he? His son has even threatened to hit me with arm cocked back for calling him a spoiled brat lol.
I have no feelings left for the jerk at all. I'd rather see him rot in hell first. He is not a man nor a
man that he thinks he is he is not a business owner as well. hehehehe he is nothing but a lying,
cheating, blackmailing, con artist who works for Oconee Sand and Gravel in Eatonton. Grand daddy used to say never trust them if they do you wrong and well I have not trusted him in a long time. He thinks we are eventually going to get back into a relationship hahahahaha wrong. I never forget what happened nor will I ever trust him again. When I am screwed by someone such as Bobby.
January 31, 07 Geesh more to this saga
Well as of the day before yesterday he decided not me, that I should move everything to the other side of the house after kicking me out with no money, no income, nothing.. Bobby said that he is going to put up a partition from where the fireplace room is to the other side of the wall cutting off the kitchen, dining room and their bedrooms which now BJ has a bedroom.
So I have been busy trying to set up a make shift kitchen which I can do pretty well only need a refrigerator, and a hot plate. I have microwave and such and his house is empty lol.
I just got done moving my desk and setting up my office in the kitchen, so i have a bedroom with an air mattress, better than sleeping on floor, and I have things to make this into an apartment for a few months. I heat my rooms when he turns off the heat during the day via fireplace. I do have plenty of food so am not worried about this, plus have plenty for my dog as well. I am just worried that he is going to kick me completely out with in a months time, he has been changing like the wind around here. One minutes wants nothing to do with me next minute wants to be all lovy dovy to me. Can't handle this. Man if your going to break it of break it off don't leave me hanging. Rather break it off anyway.
Anyway, going to have to get used to living alone, never been alone, and now he still wants to go out on dates and well the other thing now more than every but well i am no fool, as soon as I get settled in am going to go hunt me down two jobs.
I will then work until my grant comes in from the fed Gov. and then move 111 miles away from here to Pine Mountain Ga. and start my horse rescue ranch. This way I can have money in the bank and money to live on until my grant comes in.
I just received a phone call from the Putnam Co. schools. They are in need of pt lunchroom help that I can be hired full time.
I have to go there get an application then some paperwork from them after I fill out the application, then I have to go to sheriffs in Putnam co and get a background check done, then the lady will call me it can work into full time so this is good news. She told me I can come down any time, and since tomorrow is going to be icy am staying put were i am not going to get in any accident, cant afford this right off
Yes I am divorced to and had vowed never again to go out with a man, my ex abused me, and now Bobby
ripped me off my life savings. My store and left behind at my old home which is now forclosed on the sum of 53,000.00 in furniture, clothing and household items because Bobby was to lazy to bring it down here from Covington. So in total as of today’s date due to Bobby and Bj, I lost the total sum of $72,800.00 in a nine months time. Which Bobby has no intention of paying me in full. I WISH I WOULD HAVE NEVER MET THE MAN...
At least for now I made an apartment out of the other side of the house, am looking for a hot plate to cook on and I have it fixed up like a nice one bedroom apt all though its really two bedrooms, a bathroom separate from theirs and a nice living room.
I need to get some furniture and a little refridge but well am muddling through. I am getting some money this weekend and I will go and get a hot plate and a small fridge for now. I have a coffee pot and a micro wave and plenty of food since I am on food stamps and was putting food away in my camper which is broken and leaks now lol. But good things are about to come my way.
With the report I put up on not only my blog site but ripoff.com well its going to hurt him including his reputation around here, which I found out the other day from the lady who knows Bobby all to well that Bobby here does not have a very good reputation around here or in Eatonton.
Thu, 01 Feb 2007
I made this place looking pretty good here coffee pot, mirco wave, slow cooker, toaster oven, toaster, flat fry griddle for eggs and bacon and hashbrowns, fry daddy and indoor grill, but can not cook on stove top- until I get a hot plate. So I am good to go. It's home for a while until the two months is up for that is how long Bobby Allen has given me. Two months.
Bobby says "I have the best of both worlds, my independence and a man to watch over me and if I need a man for hanky panky he is here." Ha that's all he thinks about. Says "I cramp his style." He has no style, but an empty house even no food in the house, he eats junk during the day, his 15 yr. old son goes with out breakfast food, eats at school supposedly, and then goes without food at night unless they go out to eat. Bobby has not cooked anything since I moved over to the other end of the house.
He says he likes my little kitchen that he is jealous that my place looks better then his, hahaha I have this place looking like a home, just need to find all my wall hangings that he made me take down when we were together.
I guess he is crazy, only thinks of hanky panky all the time and people doing for he and Bj at no cost and then screw them over then wants them to be his friend. I will act his friend until I move then won't call him contact him nothing at all when I get the ranch. Won't have time for him as he never had time for me except hanky panky.
Used me.
Shoot a woman told me he chases after woman in the grocery store and tries to look down women's shirts. So this must tell you something on top of using a person then lies about it telling me his ex took him for 24,000.00. Yeah right, I think he used her for over 24,000.00 like he used me for 13,000.00 and stole my store.
Was complaining this morning that he can't get through the curtain for I have it blocked off. I replied to him, "well what are you going to do when the wall goes up?"
Lol. I don't go over there. He is over here all the time, hooked up my dvd player last night and sat in my living room for five minutes, then went to his section of the house, this morning, he said he tried to come over but I didn't answer when he called out knock, knock, heheh I was outside.
Could care less, he then came over for a cup of coffee and had me look up a train show at the Cobb Galleria this weekend that he wants to go to, to sell some of the train sets that he has in the store to make some money. He said he just finished a layout for a fellow that was supposed to be finished two weeks ago, that he wants to deliver this, this weekend and give me 100.00 out of this. I will believe this when I see it, says he is going to pay me off all of the money he owes me and keep paying me for as long as he has the store, says he's only made $40.00 all month. GOOD.
If I do get that money am going to go get a small refrigerator to keep my drinks cold and leftovers cold, took out some hamburger this morning will make me and Baby my dog some burgers on the indoor grill.
Any way am looking for the weather to get good again then going into Eatonton and apply for that job, its 6 hours a day where I can find a second job and save at least one paycheck. As soon as I start working, my foodstamps stop so I will have to do what I can to pay my phone bill, and get food for me and baby, until then well I just get a bunch of food put it in the camper and stock up.
I get one more alimony check and that is it, with this I need to stock up on necessities such as t paper, paper towel etc. that way it wont be so bad living when I do get a job.
Heat is on for I need to take a shower, but am going to leave it on all day long for its nice and warm in here and I do not have enough wood for all day and all night. Will have to bring some in as soon as this rain lets up a little bit. I have plenty of wood cut just have to carry it in is all and its wet so hard to burn. Besides need to keep Baby nice and warm and comfortable, me I don't care about being cold I can put other layers of clothing on but her well I worry about her.
It's a roof over my head and that's all that matters for now temporarily. Then I can move up into a bigger place of my own. God will see to it.
He thinks he is Gods gift to women. He even calls himself hunk munk hahahahaha. This he is not.
Fri, 02 Feb 2007
today has been a good day but a weird day.
I was starting to feel blue and depressed at the situation and not finding a job on careers.com that I can
start right off. I then laid on my bed and watched some Christian show, and said a prayer to god to help me find a job.
Just then a trucking company in Atlanta has called me. He responded to my earlier call about a dispatch job not a driver job. Well this fellow talked to me about a dispatching job for 18 wheelers that they have opening up and that they need a good dispatcher, which is down my alley since I had owned a trucking company for 8 yrs. He is anxious to meet with me especially when I told him I don't tell the drivers to call here or there for directions and loads, I do all the legwork, which to me is the correct way of dispatching trucks. He agreed with me and said he definitely wants to meet with me. So he had me email him my resume which I did right off and he is going to email me the application. Then we are going to meet sometime Tuesday morning at TA here in Madison. Whoohoo. The guy is going to work with me on wages since I have to travel so far and am experienced. I just told him since I have to travel from Greensboro to Atlanta every day that I definitely want more then minimum wage.
Deep in my mind I am thinking 35,000.00 to 40,000.00 a year which is fair I think. Especially for my experience in trucking and dispatching that I have. But will have to figure this out. BUT HE IS VERY MUCH INTERESTED IN ME AND MY CAPABILITIES IN TRUCKING. YEEEEEEE HAAAAAAAAA.....
Then I went on the dump truck to get out of the house with jackass, I didn’t say much and started getting a headache since noon. He had the audacity to tell me he still wants me to be his girlfriend (hahaha yeah right. IS THIS CRAZY OR WHAT?) and that he still has feelings for me that we just need our own space. (Funny here as well) then he told me he doesn't really want me to leave, but the other day had given me two months to get out. (We both know what this is all about.) Then wants to take me out this weekend, well sorry buddy I have a headache and prior plans (but I really don't)
He just got off of work and dropped me home and is at Harmony Station finishing up a layout table that he plans on delivering this coming weekend. Now its a 4X8 layout table which normally takes him a week to make and complete, its taken a so called three weeks which he has promised the guy three weekends ago hahahah.
All the while I was in the truck riding around, as stated. I did not say much to him. Not even about the job offer. I was looking out the window and was in very deep in thought about finding a job of some sort, make my own money and then try and find a place to rent until my grant comes in. this is why I have a headache now was in deep thought all day.
Saturday Feb. 3, 2007
Bobby told me the other day he was going to help me replace stuff and watch over me but come to find out last night that its all on my shoulders now to purchase the things I need. He is such a liar. I got worried last night and started to cry which is unlike me until I watched Joel Osteen and the other preacher. Then I felt better.
If he thinks we are even going to ever get back together, well he has another thing coming, he finally went to store yesterday bought a few items for his home, crock pot, dish towels (which was a waste due to I bought him dish towels and cloths when I took all my stuff out of that house) I think he got dishes which also is a waste for i purchased them as well, etc.
Would you believe he finally purchased pork chops rice and a veggie to cook last night and made them? Tried to invite me over but I didn’t accept. I had already eaten supper and was not hungry. I don't belong over there. He acts like nothing is wrong that we are still together and that I am his responsibility. Don't think so. He is trying to be my so-called Knight in shinning armor. Guess it makes him feel good, but well I keep turning my back on him, don't go over there. I try not to talk to him much either. AN'T WAIT UNTIL THAT WALL GOES UP. HOPE ITS THIS WEEKEND. TIRED OF HIM PEEKING ROUND THE CURTAIN KNOCK, KNOCK AND THINKS ITS FUNNY.
When I moved here I had 53,000.00 of furniture an entire house full of furniture that I was forced to leave cause he didnt want to move the entire house plus we had no where to put the stuff and that the house got forclosed on.
I lost everything due to him, then well that incident from me being stupid happened. Grand total loss 73,000.00 of furniture, items and money i lost in 9 months. Boy am I stupid right? I went from middle class to trailer trash. How sad. Should have never moved here, never went out with him never did anything but mind my own business which I tried to do when I met him. Now I am in a temporary pickle so to speak.
Any way I have to get stuff if not a couch somewhere cheap. When grant comes in I will get all brand new stuff for my new house I plan on building on my ranch. Tuesday I will come home with the job. Am going to ask the fellow for 16.00 an hour for dispatching, taking into time of travel which is 151 miles a day round trip to work to and from Atlanta, plus my wages and experiance in dispatching. normal is 36,000.00 a year top pay for dispatchers depending on experiance of 1 yr but I will come home with a job on Tuesday.
I want to put a couple of paychecks in bank and get some furniture for my place here save up until either the grant comes in and move or see if I can rent a place with baby, if not I should hear something on my grant by the latter part of April maybe sooner hopefully. Plus look for another job on top of my job I will be getting on Tuesday.
Watched Joel Osteen last night along with another preacher man. Both were good then went to bed early.
2/3/07
Now i am depressed. i just sat down and figured the total amount that I had gone through in a nine
month time since knowing Bobby Allen.
below is a run down.
House hold items, clothing and furniture I lost, cause Bobby Allen was to lazy to move them after he promised he would move me entirely
53,000.00
Laptop computer that got stolen out of Harmony Station on Harmony rd 4,000.00
Clothes for him 250.00
House hold items (replacement when I packed up my stuff) 50.00
Food I brought into this house when I first moved in 4,000.00
Cash for Harmony Station to get Harmony Station started 9,000.00
Food I purchased after I moved in to feed Bobby and BJ, this includes t paper etc.until Nov. 06
2,500.00
Total Bobby went through in nine months $72,800.00
Less payment for fixing my car in Nov. 06 - 160.00
Less Payment for layout tables sold December 06 - 400.00
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Total as of Saturday, February 03, 2007 $72,240.00
Less Payment for layout table sold on Feb 3 07 -100.00
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Grand total of Feb 4th, 07 Bobby Allen owes me $72,140.00
Less payment for train bank sold in June 07, when Bobby gave up the store in Greensboro. 60.00
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Grand total as of June 07. $72,080.00
Boy how could I've been so stupid?
Sunday February 4th, 2007
Well it must be nice to have money, Bobby just came home with over 100.00 of lumber to build the wall finally. Can't wait till it goes up. Then he wont pull the curtain back peering over to so called "See if I am all right, I am awake and out of bed, nor will he be able to come over when he wants. Hasn't paid me one red dime as of yet since December of last year, but can go out purchase a car, and now lumber.
Tomorrow I am going to get a new dead bolt lock and regular lock and fix the door so it shuts and cut off the drafts that are coming in. I will be the only one with a key and well he can go around out in the cold if he wants to see me.
A friend of mine asked me to the races on a Sunday in march so I am going to go if I don't have to work. Just to get out and have some fun again which was the case before I met Bobby. Going to start living my life to the fullest while I am here and when I get my ranch, will be to busy for another relationship. Will be more cautious from here on in and wont date for a while. Definately wont fall in love again. I am done with men except as just friends to hang with or do things with. Also going into celesably. Well I didnt say that right but you all know what I mean. No more heart ache or being abused, used etc. never again am to old for baby games such as what I had gone through here. Am done and will never help anyone out again, I dont care how bad off they are from now on.
Thats the matter with Bobby. He acts so broke but can afford a 700.00 a month shop, 100.00 to 150.00 in wood for layouts, electricity for my store, phone for the store, and a new car and any thing he wants for that store but when it comes to the house such as a dryer, food for his kid, etc well its mr cheapo. Even his side of the house is empty to make people feel sorry for him because he acts so poor. Heh yeah right, so poor.
Not poor at all just to cheap and wants to live off of people free of charge, then wants to throw them in the streets in mid winter, and also still wants them to be friends with him or his girlfriend? He is crazy.
I am done with him and his shinanagans and his pitty party.
I had gone by a friend of mine and they had given me a single bed, a couch and a recliner for free all though I had offered to pay them for it, they said no, I purchased a compact refrige for my make shift kitchen with a 75.00 rewards card I received from bellsouth for my new phone service and Fred’s had a two burner thing like a stove top so I can cook on there. My make shift kitchen is complete now to where I can start living a semi normal life. Now I have to search for a job that much harder until I get one. No I want two. Put one in my bank and save for the ranch in case I do not get the grant, and the other for bills, food and what ever else I and Baby needs
Thank you for reading this let the truth be known.
Feb 11 07
Its taken me an entire week for finally get moved in, find the furniture I need, obtain my refrigerator and little table top stove thing and try and get this place straightened out and livable. thank god this is over with. one more time in moving and that is when i get a job and find my own place not some make shift apartment. A place where I and my dog have room to breath. This place looks like a normal home with places to sit, the only thing i do not like is that I have to wash cloths in the bathtub because i ca not afford to go to the laundry mat and he does not want me to purchase a small washer and dryer for it will "Msake the electric goe up." and to do dishes in the bathtub. there is no cup boards, sink, counter tops nothing in here, I had to use some shelving that I had at the old store and put some cloth over it so things won't get dusty.
The wall is finally built and locks on door on his side are changed, well except my locks he is to cheap to buy me new locks and he still has a key.
he is over here still twice a day. finally last night i told him i was not feeling good and didnt want company. I do not want him over here any more. I do not want him around me any more. I do not want to be his friend any longer. whyc ome over here.
I wrote him a letter telling him same but he was to lazy to get out of his bed and read the thing which i threw over the wall. buddy we are through. done kaput, I want nothing to do with you so leave me the heck alone. OK or are you such an imbasil that you do not know what this means. I AM NO LONGER YOUR FRIEND, I AM NO LONGER YOUR GIRLFRIEND I AM NOTHING TO YOU..................
I DO NOT DATE LIARS, CHEATS, THEIVES, CON ARTISTS ETC. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR KNOW IT ALL MIND. I DISPISE YOU AND NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
Sorry folks, I know he has been reading my blogs and if this is the only way he can see I hate him for what he had done to me then so be it. He can find someone else to screw and it wont be me anymore.
I can not wait until i find a job and am able to move out of this make shift home. i deserve better than this and better than Bobby Allen. who mind you is trailer trash. has nothing will never have nothing for first of all he does not know how to take care of it, second spends his money foolishly on a play room he doesnt need, and thirdly to make people feel badly for him "Oh I am so poor." hahaha yeah right, get rid of your play pen on broad street, sell everything and then you would have money you moron.
thats what any smart man would do.
February 15, 07
Well I've been doing pretty good, he still thinks we have something there and keeps telling me he loves me. highly unllikely, only knows I am about to get this grant soon or hear word on the grant. He has been pusing me to get a job which I am unable to find as of yet. only have applied to 61 places, but with owning my own business's for so many years they all think that I am over qualified. ha yeah right, I am willing to learn new things.
oh well, the man from the trucking company called me yesterday after yet another interview last saturday, his partners all liked me and want to hire me, but they want to come up with a salary for me since I have 8 yrs experinace in dispatching, plus they need time to merge and move which they are doing today. so here I wait.
the man told me that his partners want me but not for a month, i told him I do not have a month, the man replied to me. "Debby I am in your corner, I am going to push to get you hired sooner than that so do not count on a month, count on hopefully two weeks. so I agreed to wait but in the mean time I need something to pay my bills with.
I went down to Green county schools yesterday and applied for a job which Bobby told me they are hiring and i would come home with a job that afternoon, well still have not heard from them as well so the search goes on.
if any one knows who is hiring, please let me know asap, i've not much time to get a job and find a place to rent until I get my grant.
I do not have to worry about food, I have enough food for a while plus I am now on foodstamps until I get a job. this to me is degrading being on foodstamps. first time in my life I have ever had to ask for help with a county or government. I guess that is why I get so depressed at times for I want to work and work long hard hours, I want a job or two jobs, but am unable to find them. especially when they are all supposed to be hiring.
Bobby keeps talking to me about his intentions about the train store and just making it into a layout table store knowing how much hearing about Harmony Station hurts me in my heart, and the waste of everything including the last nine months with him. Its like he is rubbing salt in a wound just to agitate me more about it. I am trying my hardest not to be upset about all that has gone on but when he brings it up and talks about it non stop to me well its like someone taking two straps, lassoing my heart and tugging on it. it hurts to even think about it and the stupidity in which I put myself in by trusting someone and loving them at one point and time in my life to the max.
Its going to take a very long time before I ever trust people again. This is for sure. Or even date another man again. Sorry guys I know you all arent bad but well after what I've gone through in the last year, do you blame me for being this way?
This is the man who has not only stolenall of my money, but also Harmony Station. Don't do business with him. BEWARE.....
Meet BOBBY D. ALLEN
The man who conned me and now won't pay me back and has put me through a living hell.
i've contacted some attornesy about this case, they want $1,000.00 just as a retainer in order to talk to me. i wish i had a $1,000.00 for this person would be sitting pretty in jail the rest of his lifeboth for stealing my business and on a civil matter which would cost me more than 1,000.00.
February 27, 2007
I've applied at 98 places so far, yestrerday Bobby kept calling my home telling me of this landscape job and that job. He seemed to be in a hurry for me to get a job, I know why though, he thinks he is goping to pay me rent on this tiny apartment in the sum of 600.00 a month for a two bedroom, one bathroom and a tiny living room with no kitchen apartment. still to no avail a job that I can work. they will call me to let me know if i am hired, when i call them back, well its sorry we've hired someone. No wonder why unemployment is so high all though they say its low now. wrong, its high.
in the mean time I am getting my ducks in a row, getting ready for two court battles with him, one for the business, and the other for civil. as stated before, I have all of the evidence to prove my case and I will win, unless Bobby Allen pays off the judge here, which he will do. I've called six attornesy to see how much i will need to sue Bobby Allen, geesh they want an arm and a leg that I do not have yet until I get a job. I may have to fight this on my own which I can do anyway and save that money. But there is a few more things I need to do first but am abiding my time on those things.
he's finally talked to the attorney down in Macon about payment arrangements on this lawsuit for providion financial, he wrote a letter to the attorney telling the attorny that he can afford to pay them $15.00 a month. ha yeah right, he can pay them more.
Bobby told me that he has two more payments of $300.00 each on the car and that car will be paid off, well where are payments to me? do i have to take you to c ourt to get money out of you for what you owe me? i guess I will have to.
Any way I have my apartment done and have settled in nicely, I've not been kicked out as of yet but this I know why as well and am just going to play the game. He only wants me for his use if you all know what I mean, oh now i do not want to sound cheap which I am not, but well I will do what it takes to keep a roof over my head, and in mean time collect evidence, get more ducks in a row, and then lower the boom when least he least expects me to.
03/09/2007
Things are starting to look up for me. I’ve found a job. Its not the greatest job in the world but it’s a start to help bring in money for me to save up and get out of this situation I am in.
Also with the help of some good friends of mine, I will be moving out of here in a month to two months from now. I will be moving 115 miles away from here, away from Bobby Allen, his lies, deceit etc., Never to see him again… Whoohoo, never to go through what I’ve gone through in the last seven months of constant lies and his free ride. I will have to transfer my job but this is all right. But I am on my way to a better life to get back up to the middle class way of life that I am accustomed to prior to meeting Bobby Allen.
He does this to all of his friends and anyone who comes in contact with him, then leaves them alone for fifteen years until he thinks people forget about what he has done to them. Then calls on them when he needs help again. They don’t forget nor will I. I will never have dealings with him again after I move except for a lawsuit on him for my $12,300.00 which is the only part of the money he has taken from me out of that 73,000.00 that I will be able to collect. If he does not pay me, it will be jail time for him. I will see to this as well.
I know I will never see my money from Harmony Station again so I will have to do what I have to do in order to seek justice legally.
He told me the other night that he is going to sell all of the trains in the store and pay me and another fellow, his other friend back the money he that owes us and just build layout tables. Well he has not had an order for these as well in a month’s time. He is trying to con a man who purchased our big layout in November of last year before all this started taking place of him kicking me out of my own store into adding on to his layout for $10,000.00. It won’t cost that much to add on to this mans layout this I know for a fact. Bobby is upset that the guy is not making up his mind to add on now. That the guy is procrastinating, in adding on to his current layout right at this point and time.
I am not going to give him any money from my paychecks. It’s going to go toward me from now on. My new housing needs such as my future rent until my grant comes in, bills and myself. No more will I ever get conned like this again. It’s his fault I am broke and living the way I am living. From middle class to scum.
I am going to bounce back to my middle class way of life, if I have to work two jobs seven days a week and put in as much over time as the company will allow me to put in. Then put as much money away as I can to get out of here and move 115 miles away from here and this situation. My friends say they will also help me get up some more money as well and I do not have to pay them back until I get a better paying job. That they will help me any way they can. Thank God for true good friends, when I thought all was hopeless.
At least I do not have to use my friends for all they have to get what I want, its offered to me which there will be a signed statement of my payment arrangements to them. I pay my bills on time now to make sure no one gets angry with me or hurt feelings tear us apart. I am a woman of my word and will stay this way. Honest, dependable and hard working.
03/13/2007
Well I’ve found a job the other day and filled out all of the paperwork tonight. I was ready for work, but I won’t know my work schedule until Sunday, I had also found a motel job but knowing I would be putting in a lot of hours 40-48 hours a week to be exact at the new first job, I would not make it on three hours of sleep six out of seven days a week. I called the second boss and told her I was not going to take that job. I am not a spring chicken any more can’t work 16 hours a day like Bobby Allen wants me to do.
This made Bobby Allen mad. He now is telling me he has closed the store and will open on Thursday, Friday and Saturday in hopes that he makes a sale. That the store has been dead, gee I wonder why.
Then this evening, he told me while being upset about me not only quitting the second job and me not being able to start the first job or find out my schedule until Sunday after I asked him why he was so concerned about my job situation all of a sudden, that it was my problem, he told me that he is planning on selling this dump of a trailer, or rent this dump out to someone else. This place smells as a sewer to so he can make money. THIS PLACE SHOULD BE CONDEMED AND TORN DOWN. He cant smell the stench when he comes in my part of the house.
(BEWARE NO ONE PURCHASE THIS PLACE ITS FALLING APART) PIPES KEEP BREAKING, IT SMELLS LIKE A SEWER IN HERE ESPECIALLY MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE, ITS ROTTING AWAY, THE TREES ARE ABOUT TO FALL ON IT, AND BUGS KEEP COMING IN THE HOUSE AND HE IS TO CHEAP TO PAY FOR AN EXTERMINATOR WHEN I MOVED IN IT WAS WALL TO WALL COCKROACHES.) he still owes 30.00 from the last time I had the exterminator come in and spray. He still has not paid on this bill and they will be coming after him soon, then he said he will file bankruptcy on everyone. He and his son will then move into an apartment with his son or leave town all together to run away from his problems and his reputation which will follow him..
He’s also threatened me that if I go to the sheriffs about the fraud that has gone on with the store, the attempted grand theft auto etc or if I stur up problems for him, he will throw all of my things in the street. I will have no where to go.
I replied back to him, “well just give me until June and I will be long gone from here, you’re not going to pay me my money back any way. With that money, I could have had me a place by now and you wouldn’t have to worry. I now will have to beg my ex to help me out with money for a little while until I get my first paycheck. Now I have to beg him to help me with living arrangements for I am planning to move to the Atlanta area were I can find a good job.” He didn’t say a word back to me.
Here are my plans for life. Which will take effect if only I can stay here till June.
1. Work at the new job until April
2. Move in April to new home in Atlanta.
3. Find a good paying job as I transfer my new job up there and work temp. (did this)
4. Go back to school for my business degree or go on for my insurance license
5. Save money
6. In mean time work on and complete my novels
7. Have some of my novels published
8. When grant comes in
9. Purchase my ranch and build my dream home
10. Move to ranch
11. Start ranch while going to school and work
12. Become a best selling author
13. Start up my old trucking company again
14. Continue to write and tour
15. Add on to ranch so it supports itself
Live happily ever after.
Then he tells me this evening that he was going to sit outside on back porch with me after he ate but well this has not transpired for I wanted to talk to him about his new decision about moving next month. What I really think it is, is he has a honey on the side and wants his cake from me to and its not going to happen any more. Yet he still tells me he loves me. Love to him is using a person until they are all tapped out then throws them away like a rag and treats them like dirt.
He only comes over here when he wants some if you know what I mean.
He also wants to move to Colorado. Hahaha his reputation will follow him every where he goes.
03/15/2007
Well this is all new information which has now transpired. Bobby is hurting for badly for money now to pay his bills and has decided that he wants to start a moving company. As if his reputation will not precied him. The name of his moving company will be named “Allen Moving Co..” 1410 Pullman lane, Greensboro, Ga. He may use the address of 107 E. Broad Street as an office as told to me. BEWARE. HE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO MOVE THINGS WITH OUT BREAKING THEM OR SCRATCHING THEM UP NOR IS HE INSURED AND BONDED.
A LOT OF M7Y STUFF HAD GOTTEN BROKEN AND SCRATCHED WHILE HE MOVED ME here in June of last year 2006.
Here he would rent a u-haul and help move you. He is going to close down the store Harmony Station and just sell trains on the side and take orders of layout tables while moving furniture and homes.
Me, well I am moving on with my life, I’ve applied for a good paying job in the Griffin, Jonesboro, Columbus areas of Ga, SOON TO BE CONATCED AND WILL DEFINITELY BE MOVING BY THE 10TH OF NEXT MONTH OR BY JUNE THE LATEST, mostly will be next month, which I will be moving soon to get away from Bobby Allen and his son.
Again do not do business with a rip off artist, he will take you all for a ride like he did me. He thinks he will make more money than being on his dump truck with Oconee Sand and Gravel. DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE NAME Allen or Bobby Allen, his sons name is Bobby Allen Jr. or BJ Allen. OH I CAN NOT WAIT TO GET OUT OF HERE WHOOHOO… STARTED PACKING AND EXCITED NOW THAT I FINALLY FIGURED OUT AND WILL HAVE A GOOD FUTURE AHEAD OF ME.
He will just over price you all. So beware, he is money hungry also beware of his name Bobby Allen or anything that associates with Bobby Allen. He will rip you all off badly. He is money hungry for sure and will eaither cheat his way or con his way into your life to make you give up your hard-earned money.
HE THINKS CAUSE HIS DAD USED TO HAVE A GOOD NAME IN THE MOVING BUSINESS THAT HE WILL, THIS I DO NOT THINK SO, NOT AFTER ALL HE’S DONE TO ME AND EVERYONE ELSE ASSOCIATED WITH HIM PRIOR TO ME.
Well Bobby Allen Is at it again.
The last few days its been in the high 80’s here. He does not run the air for my dog during the day and the other day when I came home from work, yes I finally found a good job I like and I get paid well, my dog was panting so hard I thought she was about to die on me.
Yesterday 03/27/2007 I went to purchase a fan and ran it today 03/28/2007 I kept the fan on medium just to keep my part of the house cool for her which worked.
At 8:00 p.m. I was sitting out on the porch and noticed a new white SUV in the yard. I asked him what happened to the one he just bought. He replied he traded that one in because the front end was going on it and he “needed wheels to get around.” Ha that car was perfectly good except that it needed struts on the front.
He then told me that he had traded his other car in and the man used what he paid on the other car in the amount of $1,000.00 toward this SUV. And that he has 12 payments of 200.00 and something dollars with no down payment. Heh yeah right.
I then told him about my part of the hosue being hot, he lied to me and told me that he had turned on the air conditioner and that I should shut my windows. This I did, I went into my bedroom where my fan is and its so hot in there, this house is an oven. I then got up off the bed and went to feel the vents in the house, no cool air is blowing from the vents. I then went outside and listened to the air conditioner outside. This to is not working.
I asked him if he is trying to chase me out of here sooner than my expected moving weekend of the 6th, he replied “No what makes you say this.” I told him well first you throw me on the other side of the house after using up my money which I am not getting paid for, then you are trying to sufficate my dog, and not turn on the air conditioner, etc.” he replied no I am not trying to push you out. I love you. Why would I do a thing like that.”
I then made a remark to him then why arent you paying me back. You have no intentions of paying me back yet you still want me as your girlfriend or should I say ex girlfriend. He replied “you know I cant afford it. I am in such a tight right now. You will get paid things are getting better for me soon.”
I thought to my self, yeah hand me another lie, well buddy I have plans for you big time before I move. Which I do have a lot of plans for him. By the time I get done with him he will be arrested, locked up in jail, with no job when he comes out and he will be sued.
I have not seen a payment of any sorts since February 25th, 2007 and since last November I’ve only been paid the sum of 500.00 on a $12,800.00 loan that I put into Harmony Station. Now the sum is 12,300.00 in which he still insists of paying me only $3,700.00.
But yet when I move he wants to come to my house, date me and take me out and see me. He tries to give me hugs and I shreak when he touches me. I cut him off and try not to either be home, or when I am home I go to bed early to avoid him.
He’s offered to help me move. Hell no way. I do not want him to know were I am at, my address, phone numbers etc I want nothing to do with him when I leave at all. The further away from him I am the happier I will be which I will be a little over 100 miles from him yeeeeeehaaaaaa. Then it will be party time.
I now am packing more and more of my things and getting ready to move, the weekend of the 6th I will go looking for a place of my own closer to work and that same weekend I will move from this hell I am in.
4/22/07
Well today I just sat down and had the time in between working full time and moving into my own home that I recently purchased, to figure out the grand total of how much Bobby Allen really owes me, or should I say has stolen from me besides stealing Harmony Station away from me behind my back and putting me through a living hell for 6 months.
The grand total of theft and extortion from me is $17,495.08 since last August of 2006 since we first opened Harmony Station. Then he has the balls to turn around and steal the store, put me into a make shift apartment with no kitchen which is only 2 bedrooms, a bathroom and a small living room. Thus building a wall from the main house and changing locks were I had to make a make shift kitchen in February of 2007 to cook in. Thinking that he is so smart, but he really is not. I want to see him lie his way out of the court when I file and take his fat ass to court. I have lots of proof and evidence that all of this happened like three minella envelopes full of stuff, financial statements, bank statements pictures and receipts that I will take with me. If he can not pay I will either garnishee his wages since I have not received a payment since February of 2007 or have his ass locked up in jail. Looks like jail time for him for sure. Would love to see him locked up permanently so he doesn’t do this to any one else that comes in his path.
This man is bad news and who ever comes near him, don’t trust him. His layout tables aren’t all that good and he is over charging people for layout tables. For example, a 4x6 table he is charging $900.00, which used to be 300.00 and up for the bigger sizes of layout tables
This total is from all of the receipts that I took and paid for out of both of my savings that I had before meeting bobby Allen, selling of my horse and personal items, alimony etc.
I have now filled out the paperwork for court and will be taking it down to Greensboro on Monday along with dropping off the paperwork and pictures to DEFAC of the way he is raising his son. Not good at all.
He right now is hard up for money and will cheat anyone who walks either in the store or in his path for money. Girls beware big time. EVERRYONE BEWARE BIG TIME HE IS A THEIF THAT MAKES FRIENDS WITH HIM AND HAS THEM PUT TRUST INTO HIM THEN HE AND HIS SON BJ USES THEM BIG TIME FOR ALL THEY CAN GET OUT OF A PERSON. TAKE THIS FROM A PERSON WHO LOST OUT $17,495.08 IN HER LIFE SAVINGS NOT TO MENTION THE 4,000.00 IN FOOD I BROUGHT TOT HE HOUSE, AND THE FOOD OF 2,000.00 I PURCHASED UNTIL I WENT ON FOOD STAMPS THAT I AM NOW OFF OF.
My life now is much better. As stated I have a job making good money, I moved 100 miles away from Bobby Allen the thief and his son who is following in his daddy’s foot steps and headed to jail himself. I’ve just as of the 6th of April put a down payment on a double wide mobile home which in two years will be mine, plus my grant will be coming in, in November to build my dream home and start my rescue ranch.
In a week I will be applying for school and going back to school for my bachelors degree in business management which I already know about but would like to learn more and continue to write on top of working, and going to school and starting the ranch.
I am the real owner of Harmony Station and want to see this store fail now that he has stolen it away from me. Please people stay away from it and Bobby Allen who thinks he owns Harmony Station. He just stole it away from me so he is not the true owner of this store.
Boycott this store please.
April, 25, 2007
After giving me a sob story about loosing his house a week ago Sunday tonight Bobby Allen called me, told me he is back to renting his dump of a house and was happy about that. Ok fine they have a dump to live in. He is known to use sob stories to get people to give him what he wants so what else is new. He’s promised to come and see me but yet in the three weeks since I’ve moved has made no attempt in coming to where I live and visit me. Non what so ever but yet tells me he still loves me. Again another lie.
He then broke the news to me that he has filed Bankruptcy on all of his creditors, he reassured me that I and Marty were not on the bankruptcy at all that “he wouldn’t do this to us”.
He told me he is paying Marty, the guy who took the title to my pickup back in November of 2006. That he has a debt of over $200,000.00. That he will be working in the dirt hole at Oconee Sand and Gravel for the rest of his life.
An acquaintance of mine sent pictures of the stolen items to Oconee Sand and Gravel. Bobby stealing a load of dirt, a wheelbarrow that he so called borrowed last year, along with garden tools and a bag of grass seed, which has since gotten back to me through the grapevine that they have sent pictures and a letter. Nothing has been done about the stealing problem over at Oconee Sand and Gravel. This shows you the kind of place he works for who must also be crooks themselves to keep on a thief. They still have not reprimanded Bobby Allen for stealing those items, which most places would automatically, fire a person for stealing their stuff and them loosing money. This goes to show you the kind of place he works for and lives in as well
I told him straight out. I did not believe him about not putting me on the bankruptcy after all of the lies he’s been giving me since we met. I would believe that I am not on the bankruptcy until I see it. He does and I will then take my paperwork to the courts and counter sue him and see him locked up in jail. I only have three mennilla envelopes full of evidence to see him locked up and or garnisheed
He insisted that he is going to pay me back. This time he promised the entire amount of $12,800.00. Again I do not believe him at all until I see this. HOW CAN HE AFOFRD A BANKRUPTCY ATTORNEY AND NOT AFFORD TO PAY ME????
I have not called him nor do I wish to call him, but if I do not start getting payment of some sort with in a month to two months I will file suit. I need that money of mine to purchase a bedroom suit, a washer and dryer, and kitchen chairs and right now I am on layoff due to a bad happening at work. Now I purchased this house of mine and well I will be forced to go back with my ex husband if I am unable to make the payments.
I do not want to get married or have anything to do with men for a long, long time after what I’ve just been through with men and Bobby Allen.
Bobby wants me and has requested me to delete this website but I decided not to do this. I feel that everyone should know what is going on, who cares about me and my store Harmony Station and what kind of a person Bobby really is.
With all that has gone on in this my very last relationship I've changed my attitude toward men major. I used to think men were the answer to security and true love. This I was badly mistaken.
After being abused, both mentally and verbally by others, and lied to and stolen from by a man I once loved very much and would have given my life for, I no longer trust the word of a man any longer. Therefore I've decided to stay alone, no man in my life and finally think of myself and my wants in life.
Since I have moved, yes, Bobby and I were seeing one another until he got his second job on the weekends a month ago, which I've still not been paid one penny since last June toward my portion of Harmony Station which was promised he would do. I have not gotten any money back on the trains that I've purchased, which he says he sent back and got money back to pay his bills and such and he has been trading some of those trains off for his personal use.
I still have receipts and a box full of them from what I've paid for along with bank statements. I am so happy that Bobby has gotten his second job on the weekends. I had thought that he would finally make payments to me out of this check but well this is not going to happen,. I think Bobby's new job is a god send now he keeps busy and doesn't come here all of the time all though I do sometimes miss him. he isn't paying my money back to me and he is getting ahead but oh well thats the bigggg city slicker ways of doing things but yet he wants a future with me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....
HAAHAHAHAHAHA I must laugh at such a thought. Me go back to a man who stole my dignity, self worth, self esteem, stolen all of my money, put me on food stamps at one time, and had treated me less than a dog in the end keeping me in a hot house and almost hurting my dog while I was living with him?
Me go back to a man who doesn't pay his debts to me or anyone else or keeps his promise to me of paying me back my money he owes me as promised? Then wants to marry me and live in my big house on my ranch free of charge to be supported by me and refuses to sign a prenuptual agreement a legal document so that he can take everything that I am working hard for now? or me move back down to Greensboro were he is in that hell whole only to be treated the same way again?
No way and I am not stupid. Not until he can prove to me that he is trust worthy and is a man of his word which he is not or he would be Paying me back the money he owes me and has told me that he would pay me back. I will be his friend but I will not Marry him or anyone until I make darn sure via a signed legal documents that I will not loose what I am working oh so hard to rebuild.
Since his word or the word of any man is all lies now days, well I might as well be better off with out a man, or a mate in my life and keep plowing forward hard in my life time just me, my dog my future animals and business's for I have no more time for horseshit in my life nor do I want it. Just because a man wants off of his dump truck and sees an EASY way of life in his future. I am not falling for this one ever again.
I've since decided to further myself since I've recently found out that Bobby Allen decided and has insisted that he doesn't own me a penny.
Forget about him, God will punish him in the long run and give him his just or he will meet someone just like him who will screw him over as he has done to many.
As for myself, I've decided and have started my own business being an Independant Trucking Dispatch agent for truckdrivers with their own authority. I have two clients now and one is a major client to where I will make a good living, I then have recently opened up an Ebay store and am working on reinstating my own trucking authority for my own trucking company were I will purchase my own 5 rigs and trailers and run them stricktly under my own dispatch.
After this, since that grant fell through I will then pay off my current home, and move to the deep country and start my rescue ranch and hold down all 4 business's to where I will be to busy for any man to be in my life. I then also will build my dream home, a 3500 sq foot log cabin home custom to my design.
There I and my dog will live and the wranglers who will work for me can live in the homesteads or mobile homes that I will place on my property. I then will live happily ever after with out a man in my life.
I will be better off and since I do not trust anyone any longer, No one will live with me, just myself and my lovely dog who is my best friend of all of the world, Baby. After this has been accomplished I will then purchase another ranch back home in Wyoming and use this as my summer home or a place of seclusion for myself just to get away for a while from the stress's of being a business owner. I long to see home once again and will in due time. Maybe start yet another business if these four do not keep me busy enough.
So this is my story about my old business, my ex boyfriend and basically of my life. You know now what to look for if you should decide to go into business with a boyfriend, partner, a friend or family. Don't do this for they are all greedy and will lie to obtain their so called status in life and steal everything from you, from your dignity, your pride, money and life. Not giving a hoot about you or your finances or even keeping a promise of paying you back. Then has the nerve to wanting to get back into your life again thinking that your going to be some sort of fool and go through the same crap all over again. Not this fool. Not me am not going through this kind of BS any longer,.
This is a joke and makes me laugh so hard. Those who have hurt me must now prove to me that they are true to their word and will back up their word with actions. This Bobby has not done as to todays date 8/27/07. So why should I go back? What does he have to offer me? sex? hahaha cant pay bills on sex, cant get ahead in life on sex. Do I go back to him just because I still have feelings for him? no this is not the way to go any more. Feelings does not pay the lost money back, it does not heal the hurt all this had given to me, had not made things better for me in a time of need, it did not give me a happy future nor does empty promises. This is not real love nor is sex.
Real love is working together, being honest, and helping build the integrity of others, it is helping one who is down and out not throwing them into a 1/4 portion of a mobile home and keeping them in a hot house or almost killing their dog in an 85 degree oven house just to save on money.
Love is not thinking about strickly sex or money as well, its loving someone whole heartedly and backing them in their endevors in life and keeping your word and your promises. Its lending a helping hand and paying back your debts to those you owe instead of insisting you do not owe it especially when that person can back up their own work by proof.
Love is caring about others and worry about then when they are not around and making an attempt so see the one you love no matter how much money you have, how much you are working.
Love is a partnership a give and take thing and if a person only takes time just thinking about their own greed and wants in life with out giving back or paying a debt then this is truly not love at all. Its just using those around you for your own so called gain. Me, I do not like to be used at all or lied to. I do not like to be stole from. Those people are no good and are of no use to me,.
THEY ARE NON IMPORTANT AND NON EXISTANT IN MY LIFE ANY LONGER. Yes, I will act as a friend but that will be the extent of it all, just someone to talk to, nothing more until proven to me that they are honorable and trust worthy people whom I will be able to trust in my life now and in the future.
If they do not want to sign any legal documents such as a dating agreement or a prenuptual acreement then they do not need me or love me enough to have me in their world and in their lives. This just shows to me that they really do not care for me they are only after three things, sex, money and the "Good life" sorry guys its not going to happen. Stay away. I am not interested in such a relationship nor do I want a relationship such as this.
Those who want me in their lives will sign any and all legal documents places before them with out hesitation concerning me, my business's and my money or my future money that I will have.
I am done with low life men, I am done with liars cheats and thieves. I have myself and my future to think about now not to mention my dog and my busnesses now days. Accept this or well take a hike.
I SUPPORT NO MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DO NOT AND WILL NOT ASSOCIATE WITH A THIEF. BOBBY IS A THIEF.
WORD OF WARNING:
If you go into business go into it yourself and keep faith in the good Lord, he will be the only honest being to guide you though trials and tribulations along with be there as your best friend through out your life. God is not out to get you, he wants to see you all have better and live a fulfilled and happy life.
January 3rd, 08.
Then in November has told me that he had traded all of the trains off for trains that he wanted. now as of December 07 has stopped taking my calls, has not returned my phone calls at all and now I am unable to get a hold of him.
Well things have gotten better for me, yes Bobby has stopped all communication towards me after begging me to still first of all be his girlfriend and second of all wanted me to take down this site which i will not do, as of December 24th 07 and January 08 he has refused to answer his telephones to me nor has returned my phone calls after i was kind enough to want to wish him a Merry Christmas only and a happy new year.
today I called his phone and left him a nice message that this is the year I will be collecting on all of my money one way or another. but i will see to it he is either put in jail or will be garnisheed from his wages both places to pay me back at least half of what he owes me, but i'd rather see him in jail. So I am biding time and no one will know when I will be filing to the courts a lawsuit on Bobby allen but I have made up my mind i am now going to do this.
I am going to do something about his laying, cheating, butt legally and yes I do have a lot of proof pictures etc. This is the year to get my money back...
Thank you
Debby
January 29th 2008
Debby Richardson owner of Harmony Station.
4/17/08 update
Well now that I have my trucking company up and running, my dispatch company running strong as well, I am now also going to be a freight broker agent in the next two weeks. I have not failed as Bobby Allen had hoped I would. In the near future I will be working on my books again and getting the manuscripts published again to when time allows for now I am a busy person who's life has turned for the better with the help of our Gracious Lord.
This message is for Bobby Allen who I know is keeping watch on this website:
This website will not go down or be taken off the internet until I receive my money in full.
this website will and has followed you everywhere in the USA over 4000 + people has hit this website along with the other website I have up about this. It will continue to grow until payment of the following amount is paid in full to me. Total you now owe me is $72,140.00. When this is all paid in full, then this website and the other I have up will finally go down.
Again here is the person who has taken me and others for a ride
Bobby Allen, your day is coming real soon and I mean real soon... your day in court will appear before you know it. hahahahahahahah beleive me or not; but its coming real soon and sooner than you think. yes been sayin this but well keep watch over your shouldier for it is and I promise you this..... afte4r all am a woman of my word............. I am a westernter you thought you took as a fool.
He has also since moved from pullman lane in Greensboro, Ga to 1130 credille pond road in greensboro, Ga. but he is so broke..... I wonder who he is screwing now for money.
Bobby Allen, you can run but you can not hide.
Harmony Station The Model Train Store.
107 E. Broad Street
Greensboro, Ga. 30642
The way I had grown up was to take a person’s word for gold. Yes this is the western way and well according to city life a stupid way for there are too many people after your money, your personal possessions, and to screw you every which way they can think of.
Since I’ve moved to Georgia, I had a lot of money in my pocket but while living in Georgia since 92, I seemed to have done one mistake time and again. This is to listen to a sob story to make me feel sorry for the person, then they turn around and use me for all they can get out of me or plain out tell me lies.
Well those days are over for me. Yes I had a boyfriend in my life, yes at one point and time I trusted him with whole heart, mind and soul and loved him dearly but since we opened Harmony Station, all I get from him is empty promises, lies and deceipt. Same with everyone else I’ve ever known.
Bobby has used me for all of his wants in life knowing how much I wanted to accomplish my dreams and goals, in which he promised to help me first upon opening up Harmony Station. He made me feel sorry for him, telling me about his hearing loss and that one-day very soon he won’t be able to hear any more and he would loose his job.
Well this very same day mind you we were talking to a publisher about publishing my book and I was $2,000.00 just shy of having enough money to publish my one of my books. (He is too afraid to go to the doctor and have surgery. He then makes excuses that he can not afford it for where he works he does have insurance. He says it crappy but I feel that I know better than that. This too is a lie. He is just to lazy or just to scared to have surgery to have his hearing corrected.. I’ve talked to doctors about this and they all say he can have his hearing corrected and he would be able to hear, that he would be home that same day with out having to take to much time off from his job at Oconee Sand and Gravel.
This very same day after finding out that I didn’t have enough to publish one of my books, he kept making me feel bad with his sob story about his hearing as we drove around looking at store fronts. It didn’t dawn on me what I was doing, I was so madly in love with him and he kept promising me of how much money is in model trains and layout tables we would make. That "He would make me a very rich woman."
So dummy me had taken all of my money that was my life savings and invested it into getting Harmony Station up and running thus thinking that I would one day double my money to be able to support myself. Well putting trust into him I had just gotten my taxes of 3,700.00 back that i wanted to put with the rest of my money and publish my book. Now mind you I do not work. I am living on $520.94 a month alimony till March of 07.
What other money I had in my bank account that I had saved up by working here and there. Cleaning houses, writing articles and selling them, saving aluminum cans, raking leaves for friends in Covington, Ga. working on farms of mucking out stalls, grooming horses, doing very dirty work and getting paid to clean out my ex husbands rig, doing lawn that he paid me for, yard sales etc. I did everything i could to save to move out of my ex husbands house and on my own and saved big time. I had $2,000.00 saved in a three-year time in my savings at the time of meeting Bobby at a rodeo in Shady Dale.
I didn’t want to touch this money at all. In the mean time of leaving my ex husband, I was putting up food every time I went to Bj’s warehouse or Sam's Club so when I moved out of my ex’s house, which I had planned to do to move by my self, I would have enough food to carry me over until some job came along. My freezer was jam packed full of food, I estimate I had a little over 4,000.00 worth of food put up for me and my dog.
Any way I met Bobby in June of 06 at a rodeo where he told me that he was not only was a country boy, but a cowboy. We started going together and he wanted to marry me and wanted me to move in. (I see now why.) Any way I put a little over $4,000.00 of food in the house because his cupboards were empty.
I bought them both, he and his son cloths and now I opened up this store and paid a little over $8,000.00+ to open up Harmony Station which was/is Bobby’s dream back in August of 06, with promises that I would have steady employment and a great income to support myself on. So I decided to take my money that I had in my savings account and put it as a down payment on the store and purchase our first stock, signs, licenses etc.
In November 06, Bobby needed money to purchase Christmas stock for the store. We both were flat broke for I went and used up not only every penny i had in my bank account, but nineteen dollars of my bank account. I used all of my taxes of $3,700.00, Sopme money I had owed my ex husband in the amount of $700.00, I sold my horse, my best friend Bo for $3,000.00 plus $1,800.00 in alimony checks on top of still purchasing food for he and Bj his son who eat like pigs might I add.
Bobby had chipped in a little bit of his own money, a grand total at this time of 3,000.00 until he fell behind in the bills, where he was getting court summons's at the house. He had fallen behind in water bill which I had to pay and catch up, electric bills etc. and this included my camper payment were I am storing my camper that he so proudly promised to pay for when I moved in. As he had promised to take care of me and support me when we first met. So I caught my camper rent up finally on my camper payment and am making payments all though he promised he could take care of me. He promised that he would pay my camper rent etc. Yeah right.
Any way he tried to obtain a few of investors, who were well off to get them to invest. No one wanted to help him. Finally he went to a friend of his from high school. This man works for the GA Farm Bureau and the man took out some money from his retirement savings at work. This caused a bunch of problems with Bobby and me, and he and his wife, This fellow IO know from adam nor have I ever met him had wanted collateral.
Well Its still causing problems with Bobby and I. I've given Bobby until February 1st, 07 to get my title of my pickup truck back or else I will go to the authorities with both a copy of the bogus contract and proof which I have and give it to them and take care of this my way, then both men will be in deep trouble. I want my truck title back.
I've fallen out of love with Bobby as well and am waiting on a Federal Grant to obtain my dreams and goals including purchasing some land for sick and injured animals and build a home of my own. I was looking for just land but as of recent, I will be looking for something with a home on it and move out as quickly as possible if I can last that long. There is to much tension in the house to even enjoy life and ever be happy. Plus why live with someone if you don't love them any longer. Here is when Bobby asked me if I would build him a home on my land so that he could rent out his house. I asked him. "Are you going to work on my ranch?" his reply then was "No. I am going to be at the store all day long." Well on my future ranch, no one lives for free. They will have a paycheck and free accomodations but will have their own bills to pay such as electric, car insurance, phone service etc. Everyone who lives on my ranch will work on my ranch. Bobby thought that I was going to give him a free ride, build him a home so he wouldn't have house note to pay and then bring in money from his moble home trailer, pay off his mortgage and live scott free on me. I set him straight from the git go.
Bobby didn’t want to put up the deed to his house what he has now, which is the only collateral he has. Instead Bobby called me on the phone remembering what I had told him a few months ago, about putting up my title when we first opened the doors, beliveing in Harmony Station. After seeing no customers in the store until just a few weeks ago in November, well I had changed my mind in using my pickup truck.
This fellow I do not know from adam wanted some collateral, so Bobby promised his friend he had collateral MY pickup truck that he so graciously took over since the day we met.
Bobby got on the phone with me wanted my pickup truck title, we argued and argued about it and I kept telling him "NO, I was not putting up my pickup for a failing store."
He then came home got the title to my pickup which I refused to sign. He told me to "Get the F out of his house if I didn't want to help him". This made me even more mad and more upset than I already was so I quickly scribbled my name on it which doesn’t look like my hand writing and threw it at him and told him to well you know.
Now his friend has my title to my truck, which is in my name, a bogus contract about being able to sell my pickup truck, which he listed as "Bobby’s (his) automobile title, and my name is not on contract nor did I sign any contract. All I signed sloppily was my truck title. Which is not my signature at all. Bobby’s name is not on my pickup truck title. (Grand theft auto and theft here) then in the so- called contract it has two business names, Harmony Crossing and Harmony Station. So this contract is very much null and void. That this fellow can sell my business, I had put my life savings into.
I swear on my granddaddy’s grave, if anything happens to my pickup I will file suit on both men and both will be sitting pretty in jail and loose everything they ever had or worked for plus their jobs and families. This I promise (We westerners keep our word on everything) all because someone I trusted to the max had betrayed me and lied to me. Along with lying to others to get what he wants in life. He even lied to all of the customers, telling them that I was his wife. He had me put Debby Allen on all of the documents, and use his name. He was ashamed to have a girlfriend and told me that its not good for business. I didn't want to but went along with it to please him. I am so sorry for this everyone. I should have never used his name or deceived you all as well. But I wanted to keep peace and keep him happy. I hate lying or deceiving others. Not the western way at all. please accept my apologies.
This is when I lost all love for Bobby but yet tell him I love him, and can not stand to be around him nor do I want to be around him. I do not like Liars, cheaters and theives. I do not care to be around them either.
So as of late I was contacted that I qualify for a federal grant, which I will be getting. Then I will purchase my own land, make it into a ranch for sick and injured animals and a boarding stable etc. and leave Bobby and his son. I am hoping a home will be on it as well to where I can move out as quickly as possible. I do not enjoy living with him or his son any longer, I do not love him any longer so hey why not get rid of my ess baggage by making me happy for a change. I certainly can not be happy where I am. It’s like living and working in a prison free of charge. Heck I do not make an income here because he takes all of the money off the sales of trains. Nor will I be making an income on the initial investment that I had made in this business as I am supposed to be doing or was promised that I would do. Once again empty promises and lies. The only thing i get is 100.00 every time he sells a layout tables and completes it. How often does he do a layout table? he's done a grand total of 5 of them since Harmony Station had opened its doors. He is not making payments to me, he is not giving me half of the sales when he sells anything in the store or at train shows etc., he keeps all of that money. so I am screwed big time.
Bobby is not getting any of the grant money, he is not moving in with me, I am not building him a home on my ranch nothing like he wants me to do while he rents out his house. I am not helping him ever again. NEVER.
NOR WILL I HELP ANYONE ELSE EVER AGAIN.
All I want is my pickup truck title back and my initial investment of $8,000.00+ back, which Bobby only agrees to pay me $3700.00 in installments from layout table sales of $100.00 each time. He does not want to consider me as a partner or make me a partner by signing a partnewrship agreement. He does not want to be bound legally which I’ve asked him to do. He does not want to give me any of the proceeds after the investments are paid but thinks we will still be together after I move onto my ranch, that I will be going to trade shows with him, and travel with him. He doesn’t want to give me a wage for sitting in this store working for him either.
Bobby has promised to pay for my pickup but knowing Bobby, I will end up paying off this debt as well just to make sure my pickup truck title is safely in my hands again. I know how Bobby does things if its not his, he will pay on it for two months then fall behind then I will end up paying his friend for my pick up truck title. No way, I am done giving and trusting any one, now come next month I will be leasing land and boarding horses, I will have responsibilities to animals to take care of them and feed them. He's also told me to "sit back and collect the money from the store." yeah right. he never did find me that land i was supposed to lease as he promised to do. he just dropped it and has not helped me nor said anything toward finding me some land so that I can start boarding horses. Its now the end of February and he promised to help me, but has not.
As far as I am concerned Bobby and I are done with.
As far as his friend is concerned he too will be in deep trouble if he sells or attempts to sell my truck and take my business and sells it as well. In all rights. I own Harmony Station. I’ve paid in a little over $8,000.00+ plus $5,000.00 for my pickup while Bobby has only put in a grand total of $4,000.00 if that until he started making sales on trains and layout tables and now the store is supporting its self and paying its own bills. This is November 06 & December of 06.
NOTHING BETTER HAPPEN TO MY PICKUP TRUCK. ITS NOT BOBBY’S TO SELL NOR HIS FRIENDS PICKUP TO SELL IF BOBBY FALLS BEHIND IN PAYMENTS.... I WILL SUE THE CRAP OUT OF BOTH AND SEE TO IT THEY BOTH ARE LOCKED UP IN JAIL TO ROT. ON TWO CHARGES THE FIRST CHARGE for Grand Theft Auto, the other charge for theft in general.
Both men have no right at any of my personal property. I also am not married to Bobby Allen as well thus making it illegal for Bobby to do any transactions with my personal property. Bobby kept running around telling our custoomers that I am married to him. No I was only engaged to him up until the beginning of November when I realized what was going on.
February 1st, 2007 is coming real fast which is the deadline I've given Bobby Allen to get my truck title back to me or I will pursue legal action against both men. Alot of people will be affected by his stupidity and greed.
December 2nd, 2006
After reading what I had put on the old company website, which he had me delete (This should tell you all something. He's trying to hide the truth from not only possible customers but customers now), he told me this morning that yes "after I am paid off he will still be sharing the profits for 20 years or how ever long Harmony Station will be in business if we stay together. If it wasn't me who helped him get into business and using my money, he wouldn't have no business. It would only be fair for me to also make a profit off of this business since I've not only sat here in the store baby sitting it while he works Oconee Sand and Gravel but had helped him financially to build and acquire this store and his shop which he had also dreamed of doing all his life." Still no signed partnership agreement have we signed yet because he doesn’t want to be legally bound to me in his empty promises, which I've been asking for. His shop? His business?
He still is using my pickup truck and I told him that he has until February 1,
2007 (This was at Christmas December 26th, 2006 after I kept asking for it back since November 2006 to get my title back or I will be going to the police. I will as well as Defac about his boy. Well 18 more days and I go to the police with this information then hire an attorney. He keeps telling me he will talk to the man next week. Yeah right at first it was he was going to talk to the man this weekend 1/13/07 now its next week he will talk to this fellow. "Not to worry him with it."
He's since then moved my business from 899 Harmony Rd Eatonton, to 107 E. Broad Street in Greensboro Ga. With out my consent or consulting with me. He won’t even give me a key to the new building or let me near the new building, I had to hunt it down today. He's taken off with my business, my money and now my truck. HOW STUPID COULD I HAVE BEEN GEESH....
For Model Train Enthusiasts::::::
If I were you, I would not deal with a person who not only lies all of the time, but steals others things for his benifit. The address is HARMONY STATION, 107 E. BROAD STREET, GREENSBORO, GA, 30642. Warning Please Stay away...
WHO WOULD WANT TO DO DEALINGS WITH A PERSON WHO RIPS OTHERS OFF, TAKES THEIR BUSINESS AND HAD DONE THE ABOVE TO HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND. HE IS NOTHING BUT A CHEAT, LIAR, CON ARTIST AND A THEIF AND PERSONALLY, I WOULDN'T DO BUSINESS WITH HIM KNOWING ALL THAT HAS GONE ON IN THIS POST. I WISH THAT I WOULD HAVE NEVER MET HIM.......
HIS NAME IS BOBBY ALLEN WHO IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED WHAT SO EVER. AND LADIES, SHOULD YOU APPROACE HIM DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH HIM, FOR ALL HE IS AFTER IS MONEY, SUPPORT AND SEX. HE LOOKS DOWN WOMANS SHIRTS IN THE GROCERY STORE TO GET A PEEK OF YOUR FRONTS. THIS IS HOW CRAZY THIS MAN IS. THIS I GOT FIRST HAND OFF OF ANOTEHR WOMAN.
IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS MY NEW EMAIL ADDRESS richardsondebby@bellsouth.net I placed a picture of this jackass who stole from me big time at the bottom of this site. The sum of $13,000.00+ in total including my truck title and 4,000 in food that I brought with me and put in his house. Heck the man can’t even purchase breakfast food for his son BJ but can purchase over $1,000 in MTH products to put in my store off his bonus check. and $100.00 in candy as a Christmas present for BJ as well to eat and live on because he doesn’t have to fork over dental bills, the state of Georgia does.
I hope what he is telling me is true but I know better and as Grand Daddy used to say. "I will believe this when I see it." until then I do not accept lies. He's a liar and I am not falling for his crap any longer
Well I can forget about being paid back, there are new developments to this saga. Two months ago he was served with papers from the Green County Sheriff's Dept. for non payment on his bedroom suit. He went to the court hearing and asked the judge to let him make payments.
1/9/07
He wants to get back together and get things the way they used to be. Yes I will play his lonely game but when I am able to get out of "His House" and get moved I will no longer wish or want to be near him, see him, etc. for I will have nothing ever to give him ever again. Not even a shoulder to lean on since he can not be honest with me and has to sneak around moving my business and disallowing me near it to help out. So onward and up ward to a better life, not a trailer trash life.
Then on 1-9-07 he told me that "If I do not give him what he wants (and we all know what those two things are) that he is not going to help me around here or do things for me" This is considered Blackmale wouldn't you say? or a form of Blackmale.
I've been packing my things and putting them in my camper and purchasing my own food and not bringing it to the house here for them to eat. I took out whatever food of mine was left and put that up as well. I am getting ready to move and looking for a job besides.
Last Sunday 1-7-07 He had gotten served once again by Providian financial services and is due in court again. I personally took the summons in hand when the sheriff's dept delivered it for he was gone to the new store. People wants dealings with a man who can not pay his bills? if I would have known earlier what I know now would have never went out with the freak.
1/16/07
Well Bobby is at it again with lies. I guess he lives with in a lye. Today while working at Oconee Sand and Gravel, his regular job, he went out and purchased a white dodge automobile, he called me up at noon or there after and then told me to take him down to get his new car which he is so proud of. I asked him where did he get the money, I thought he was broke. Then I made the statement "must be nice to have money." He then told me he made the transaction on a signature promise". Now this is coming from a man who supposedly can not pay me my money back nor a 5,000.00 loan to his friend, but can pay 1,200.00 for a car.
He must think I am really stupid. No one does a signature loan any longer and him with a 1,600.00 judgement on his head as well he has money he is not telling anyone about. Where is my share of $13,000.00????? Start paying me instead of paying me 100.00 every time you sell a layout to locals.
So he spends most of his time at his new "Play house" trying to act the businessman he is not. Then has the nerve to take me to a movie on Sunday and out to eat just so he can get some hanky panky out of me. Wrong no more. When I find a job and am able to move out, I will make sure its 111 miles from here and after he moves me, I then will tell him that I want nothing to do with him ever nor see him ever again. Heck, he's used me for everything I've got, why not use him?
6:00 P.M.
I could not hold back a lie any longer, Bobby kept on telling me that he would talk to his friend about my title. That he was going to talk to him last week. He didn't, he said he was going to talk to him this past weekend, didn’t, so I sent his friend an email letting him know the conditions that if I do not have my truck title back by Feb 1, 07 I will go to the sheriffs dept. That if Bobby goes down he will go down and i have all proof as to what I am saying a folder an inch thick of paperwork to give to the judge. Lets see if I do not get my pickup truck title back by next week.
Bobby doesn’t know I've done this yet, but I could not hold back a lie any longer, was taught to be honest in everything I do. So well we will see what happens. I know one thing, Bobby will surely kick me out now for contacting his friend when he finds out. Hope I find a good job by then.
1/22/2007 7:20 PM
Well Bobby has 9 more days to get my truck title back to me, which he has not mentioned a word to me. I had not bugged him in a while, I did however over the phone tell him how I felt once again and am not a happy camper that I do not have my truck title before now since the warning on December 26th, 06 that I had given him.
Marty has not responded to my email which I know he already received as of today’s date, and its been a week.
While talking with Bobby, he promised me, which I do not believe him until I see the title in my hands that he will have my truck title back in my hands to me by Friday the 26th of January of 2007 as long as I do not bring up the subject again. I should not “worry him with it.” I told him topic is closed until then which now I am not going to say a word. He has until a week from this Thursday to get that title back in my hands or to the sheriffs department I go with proof and all paperwork in hand.
So again I will believe this when I see it. Am not in a good mood right at the moment for he is all promises and bull and no actions. I am so upset about all going on. I don’t want to cook for him and his son. He is pitching a fit about this thus telling me "I don’t help him out". Heck why should I? I am not a slave, he doesn’t do a thing for me or around here. He is gone at that stupid store 6 days a week lying to me that he is working on a layout when this past Saturday, he finally built the layout thus telling me all week that he was going to deliver this layout to the customer this past weekend. Then he throws it up in my face that he is letting me stay here for free, I said "What? I’ve more than paid my rent here. I’ve brought 4,000.00 of food in this house and then he said I should be helping him while I am here and that he noticed that I have not been putting food in the house."
Now I am on foodstamps and I am not supposed to be feeding neither one of them, I stopped and have been storing this food for when I move out. This he is not happy about. Tough tiddly winks. I support no man. Then he tells me that I never do anything for him or help him out, I replied," who was the one who helped you in the yard yesterday chopping wood, and helping you finally clean up the yard until it started pouring out? I don’t do a thing around here. Ha yeah right. I do more than your lazy son who sits in his room playing video games all day while he and I are out there working until we are dead".
That kid is so lazy and Bobby lets him get away with murder around here thus babying a 15 yr old boy who wants a car when he is sixteen. This is really a joke, the kid doesn't want to take responsability here at the house lord help us when Bobby gives him the new car he just bought when he is sixteen years old. remind me to stay off of the roads then. Remind me to Stay off of the roads when Bobby gives his son Bj the white dodge car he just purchased in siox months as Bobby is planning to do. Every one stay off of the roads. (sorry had to put a little humor in this.)
Well we will see if he keeps his promise but I know for a fact this is just words to get me off of his back about my pickup truck. But no more words will be said, if I do not next Thursday I will take action against him and his friend. Not caring what happens after this to his son or me. Lets give the kid anything he wants to buy his love instead of him earning his way and working for his own car like most of us have to do. Bj a 15 yr old boy cries when he doesnt get his way or something like an exbox that he wanted for Christmas. Hahaha that kid is going to end up in jail when he is older. I can see it already. He loves to do as daddy does and follow in daddies footsteps, he even copies everything that Bobby does the way he eats, etc. and sits next to his dad when we are watching tv like he is gay or something. Makes me wonder what really goes on at Harmony Station lol.
I brought to Bobbys attention today that Bj is going to turn out gay the way Bj acts at times, or most of the time.. Bobby's replly If Bj turns out gay he will support this in his son. Its non of my busienss the way he is raising his son." Me I would worry about this big time if I were him.
01/23/2007 10:02 AM
After me not being around Bobby all night for I went into a different rooms and I totally ignored him as if he weren't in the house. I told him what goes on in this house is non of my business any longer unless it involves me and didn’t even kiss him today goodby like normal when he went off to work. I just waved at him. While he was at home, I didn’t pay him any attention etc.
He just called me. He says that "He got my truck title back from his friend that I will have it in my hands when he gets home from work this evening ." Ha this I will believe when I have the baby in my hands."
I told him I was happy that he got my truck title back but had reserved myself to sound like I was happy but not over joyed. Not until I see my pick up truck title back in my hands then put into a safe deposit box where he can not get a hold of it ever again. Also why do I have to wait for it? Why not drop it off now? He picked it up at this time when he wanted it. Why do I have to wait? This is just like Bobby Allen. When he wants something its now, when others want something its later.
So we will see what happens later on when he gets home from work. This doesn’t pay the $13,000.00 he owes me or gives me back my store, but I can take a loss on this and start all over financially. This way I can find a job with ease of mind that my grand fathers pickup truck that I had inherited is not going to get sold when Bobby fails at Harmony Station for lack of payment to his friend.
8:30 p.m.. Well Bobby Allen finally did something right for a change. He finally kept his word on one thing since I've known him. He did bring in my title and it is now in my hands and in a very safe place where no one can get to it except me.
I really can not afford to take a $13,000.00 loss but if need be, I will, I will just to get out of this situation, but first I must find a job which I've been on three interviews thus far and have applied at 43 places thus far. In the mean time I have one more alimony check coming and I can put most of that away but it won't be enough to get me on my feet. But well its a start and that’s all I care about. Or until the paperwork for the grant comes in which I do hope its real soon, then I can move 111 miles away from here and start my own dreams that I have planned like my rescue ranch and such and then next year publish some of my books etc.
I then will be living my life instead of someone else's life for a change. Never again will chance going out with a man again, I just assume be lonely by my self with my dog and my animals, this way its less problems in my life.
I will keep you all updated as to what happens next in this saga for its still going lol. But at least I now have my pickup truck title in my hands and hidden.
Personally I would not do business with a man who steals, cheats, lies and blackmales others to get what he wants. He wants to hide the plain out truth from his customers and future customers but yet do honest business, when he is not an honest man at all. This is the reason he shut down his old website or had it shut down.
Do not go and do business with him, he stole my business and my life savings. I am not married to the creep as well like he has been going around telling others we are. Now I am out not of only $13,000.00 which he has until April 1,07 to get back to me but he also is not going to file last years taxes. I also am now his ex girlfriend trying my hardest to get out of this situation never to return. He has lost me as a friend and girlfriend for he literally screwed me. I will file, I have the original receipts and I am not going to jail for tax evasion on Harmony Station.
Sunday Jan. 28th 2007
Well I guess you might as well call this an online log now until I am able to move out. But good ole Bobby Allen just kicked me out of the house and I will be sleeping in my car tonight. have no where here to go. He stole all of my money and my buisiness so I am flat broke. thats right Bobby Allen, take me for all I've Got then leave me and use me for your own pleasures in life. Don't forget. """"What comes around goes around.""""" God will see to it that you will be punished one way or another. Especiall come judgement day.
He thinks he has a lot of friends. No he has a lot of enemies for he uses all of his friends until he doesnt pay them back or visit them any longer for 15 yrs then calls on them when he is in need of them. friends, Bobby Allen has no friends nor will he have me as a friend for when I leave here I want nothing at all to do with him, no phone calls, no visits etc. I was the only true friend Bobby Allen had, now that is gone.
if he gets on my wrong side. DEFAC for one, the sheriffs for two and jail for three. call it theft,
attempted grand theft auto, theft of my business and neglect of his son which i have pictures mind you.
giving a 15 yr. old kid 100.00 in candy over christmas all because he doesn't have to pay the dentist, Well Care does. Wasting our tax payer money isn't he? His son has even threatened to hit me with arm cocked back for calling him a spoiled brat lol.
I have no feelings left for the jerk at all. I'd rather see him rot in hell first. He is not a man nor a
man that he thinks he is he is not a business owner as well. hehehehe he is nothing but a lying,
cheating, blackmailing, con artist who works for Oconee Sand and Gravel in Eatonton. Grand daddy used to say never trust them if they do you wrong and well I have not trusted him in a long time. He thinks we are eventually going to get back into a relationship hahahahaha wrong. I never forget what happened nor will I ever trust him again. When I am screwed by someone such as Bobby.
January 31, 07 Geesh more to this saga
Well as of the day before yesterday he decided not me, that I should move everything to the other side of the house after kicking me out with no money, no income, nothing.. Bobby said that he is going to put up a partition from where the fireplace room is to the other side of the wall cutting off the kitchen, dining room and their bedrooms which now BJ has a bedroom.
So I have been busy trying to set up a make shift kitchen which I can do pretty well only need a refrigerator, and a hot plate. I have microwave and such and his house is empty lol.
I just got done moving my desk and setting up my office in the kitchen, so i have a bedroom with an air mattress, better than sleeping on floor, and I have things to make this into an apartment for a few months. I heat my rooms when he turns off the heat during the day via fireplace. I do have plenty of food so am not worried about this, plus have plenty for my dog as well. I am just worried that he is going to kick me completely out with in a months time, he has been changing like the wind around here. One minutes wants nothing to do with me next minute wants to be all lovy dovy to me. Can't handle this. Man if your going to break it of break it off don't leave me hanging. Rather break it off anyway.
Anyway, going to have to get used to living alone, never been alone, and now he still wants to go out on dates and well the other thing now more than every but well i am no fool, as soon as I get settled in am going to go hunt me down two jobs.
I will then work until my grant comes in from the fed Gov. and then move 111 miles away from here to Pine Mountain Ga. and start my horse rescue ranch. This way I can have money in the bank and money to live on until my grant comes in.
I just received a phone call from the Putnam Co. schools. They are in need of pt lunchroom help that I can be hired full time.
I have to go there get an application then some paperwork from them after I fill out the application, then I have to go to sheriffs in Putnam co and get a background check done, then the lady will call me it can work into full time so this is good news. She told me I can come down any time, and since tomorrow is going to be icy am staying put were i am not going to get in any accident, cant afford this right off
Yes I am divorced to and had vowed never again to go out with a man, my ex abused me, and now Bobby
ripped me off my life savings. My store and left behind at my old home which is now forclosed on the sum of 53,000.00 in furniture, clothing and household items because Bobby was to lazy to bring it down here from Covington. So in total as of today’s date due to Bobby and Bj, I lost the total sum of $72,800.00 in a nine months time. Which Bobby has no intention of paying me in full. I WISH I WOULD HAVE NEVER MET THE MAN...
At least for now I made an apartment out of the other side of the house, am looking for a hot plate to cook on and I have it fixed up like a nice one bedroom apt all though its really two bedrooms, a bathroom separate from theirs and a nice living room.
I need to get some furniture and a little refridge but well am muddling through. I am getting some money this weekend and I will go and get a hot plate and a small fridge for now. I have a coffee pot and a micro wave and plenty of food since I am on food stamps and was putting food away in my camper which is broken and leaks now lol. But good things are about to come my way.
With the report I put up on not only my blog site but ripoff.com well its going to hurt him including his reputation around here, which I found out the other day from the lady who knows Bobby all to well that Bobby here does not have a very good reputation around here or in Eatonton.
Thu, 01 Feb 2007
I made this place looking pretty good here coffee pot, mirco wave, slow cooker, toaster oven, toaster, flat fry griddle for eggs and bacon and hashbrowns, fry daddy and indoor grill, but can not cook on stove top- until I get a hot plate. So I am good to go. It's home for a while until the two months is up for that is how long Bobby Allen has given me. Two months.
Bobby says "I have the best of both worlds, my independence and a man to watch over me and if I need a man for hanky panky he is here." Ha that's all he thinks about. Says "I cramp his style." He has no style, but an empty house even no food in the house, he eats junk during the day, his 15 yr. old son goes with out breakfast food, eats at school supposedly, and then goes without food at night unless they go out to eat. Bobby has not cooked anything since I moved over to the other end of the house.
He says he likes my little kitchen that he is jealous that my place looks better then his, hahaha I have this place looking like a home, just need to find all my wall hangings that he made me take down when we were together.
I guess he is crazy, only thinks of hanky panky all the time and people doing for he and Bj at no cost and then screw them over then wants them to be his friend. I will act his friend until I move then won't call him contact him nothing at all when I get the ranch. Won't have time for him as he never had time for me except hanky panky.
Used me.
Shoot a woman told me he chases after woman in the grocery store and tries to look down women's shirts. So this must tell you something on top of using a person then lies about it telling me his ex took him for 24,000.00. Yeah right, I think he used her for over 24,000.00 like he used me for 13,000.00 and stole my store.
Was complaining this morning that he can't get through the curtain for I have it blocked off. I replied to him, "well what are you going to do when the wall goes up?"
Lol. I don't go over there. He is over here all the time, hooked up my dvd player last night and sat in my living room for five minutes, then went to his section of the house, this morning, he said he tried to come over but I didn't answer when he called out knock, knock, heheh I was outside.
Could care less, he then came over for a cup of coffee and had me look up a train show at the Cobb Galleria this weekend that he wants to go to, to sell some of the train sets that he has in the store to make some money. He said he just finished a layout for a fellow that was supposed to be finished two weeks ago, that he wants to deliver this, this weekend and give me 100.00 out of this. I will believe this when I see it, says he is going to pay me off all of the money he owes me and keep paying me for as long as he has the store, says he's only made $40.00 all month. GOOD.
If I do get that money am going to go get a small refrigerator to keep my drinks cold and leftovers cold, took out some hamburger this morning will make me and Baby my dog some burgers on the indoor grill.
Any way am looking for the weather to get good again then going into Eatonton and apply for that job, its 6 hours a day where I can find a second job and save at least one paycheck. As soon as I start working, my foodstamps stop so I will have to do what I can to pay my phone bill, and get food for me and baby, until then well I just get a bunch of food put it in the camper and stock up.
I get one more alimony check and that is it, with this I need to stock up on necessities such as t paper, paper towel etc. that way it wont be so bad living when I do get a job.
Heat is on for I need to take a shower, but am going to leave it on all day long for its nice and warm in here and I do not have enough wood for all day and all night. Will have to bring some in as soon as this rain lets up a little bit. I have plenty of wood cut just have to carry it in is all and its wet so hard to burn. Besides need to keep Baby nice and warm and comfortable, me I don't care about being cold I can put other layers of clothing on but her well I worry about her.
It's a roof over my head and that's all that matters for now temporarily. Then I can move up into a bigger place of my own. God will see to it.
He thinks he is Gods gift to women. He even calls himself hunk munk hahahahaha. This he is not.
Fri, 02 Feb 2007
today has been a good day but a weird day.
I was starting to feel blue and depressed at the situation and not finding a job on careers.com that I can
start right off. I then laid on my bed and watched some Christian show, and said a prayer to god to help me find a job.
Just then a trucking company in Atlanta has called me. He responded to my earlier call about a dispatch job not a driver job. Well this fellow talked to me about a dispatching job for 18 wheelers that they have opening up and that they need a good dispatcher, which is down my alley since I had owned a trucking company for 8 yrs. He is anxious to meet with me especially when I told him I don't tell the drivers to call here or there for directions and loads, I do all the legwork, which to me is the correct way of dispatching trucks. He agreed with me and said he definitely wants to meet with me. So he had me email him my resume which I did right off and he is going to email me the application. Then we are going to meet sometime Tuesday morning at TA here in Madison. Whoohoo. The guy is going to work with me on wages since I have to travel so far and am experienced. I just told him since I have to travel from Greensboro to Atlanta every day that I definitely want more then minimum wage.
Deep in my mind I am thinking 35,000.00 to 40,000.00 a year which is fair I think. Especially for my experience in trucking and dispatching that I have. But will have to figure this out. BUT HE IS VERY MUCH INTERESTED IN ME AND MY CAPABILITIES IN TRUCKING. YEEEEEEE HAAAAAAAAA.....
Then I went on the dump truck to get out of the house with jackass, I didn’t say much and started getting a headache since noon. He had the audacity to tell me he still wants me to be his girlfriend (hahaha yeah right. IS THIS CRAZY OR WHAT?) and that he still has feelings for me that we just need our own space. (Funny here as well) then he told me he doesn't really want me to leave, but the other day had given me two months to get out. (We both know what this is all about.) Then wants to take me out this weekend, well sorry buddy I have a headache and prior plans (but I really don't)
He just got off of work and dropped me home and is at Harmony Station finishing up a layout table that he plans on delivering this coming weekend. Now its a 4X8 layout table which normally takes him a week to make and complete, its taken a so called three weeks which he has promised the guy three weekends ago hahahah.
All the while I was in the truck riding around, as stated. I did not say much to him. Not even about the job offer. I was looking out the window and was in very deep in thought about finding a job of some sort, make my own money and then try and find a place to rent until my grant comes in. this is why I have a headache now was in deep thought all day.
Saturday Feb. 3, 2007
Bobby told me the other day he was going to help me replace stuff and watch over me but come to find out last night that its all on my shoulders now to purchase the things I need. He is such a liar. I got worried last night and started to cry which is unlike me until I watched Joel Osteen and the other preacher. Then I felt better.
If he thinks we are even going to ever get back together, well he has another thing coming, he finally went to store yesterday bought a few items for his home, crock pot, dish towels (which was a waste due to I bought him dish towels and cloths when I took all my stuff out of that house) I think he got dishes which also is a waste for i purchased them as well, etc.
Would you believe he finally purchased pork chops rice and a veggie to cook last night and made them? Tried to invite me over but I didn’t accept. I had already eaten supper and was not hungry. I don't belong over there. He acts like nothing is wrong that we are still together and that I am his responsibility. Don't think so. He is trying to be my so-called Knight in shinning armor. Guess it makes him feel good, but well I keep turning my back on him, don't go over there. I try not to talk to him much either. AN'T WAIT UNTIL THAT WALL GOES UP. HOPE ITS THIS WEEKEND. TIRED OF HIM PEEKING ROUND THE CURTAIN KNOCK, KNOCK AND THINKS ITS FUNNY.
When I moved here I had 53,000.00 of furniture an entire house full of furniture that I was forced to leave cause he didnt want to move the entire house plus we had no where to put the stuff and that the house got forclosed on.
I lost everything due to him, then well that incident from me being stupid happened. Grand total loss 73,000.00 of furniture, items and money i lost in 9 months. Boy am I stupid right? I went from middle class to trailer trash. How sad. Should have never moved here, never went out with him never did anything but mind my own business which I tried to do when I met him. Now I am in a temporary pickle so to speak.
Any way I have to get stuff if not a couch somewhere cheap. When grant comes in I will get all brand new stuff for my new house I plan on building on my ranch. Tuesday I will come home with the job. Am going to ask the fellow for 16.00 an hour for dispatching, taking into time of travel which is 151 miles a day round trip to work to and from Atlanta, plus my wages and experiance in dispatching. normal is 36,000.00 a year top pay for dispatchers depending on experiance of 1 yr but I will come home with a job on Tuesday.
I want to put a couple of paychecks in bank and get some furniture for my place here save up until either the grant comes in and move or see if I can rent a place with baby, if not I should hear something on my grant by the latter part of April maybe sooner hopefully. Plus look for another job on top of my job I will be getting on Tuesday.
Watched Joel Osteen last night along with another preacher man. Both were good then went to bed early.
2/3/07
Now i am depressed. i just sat down and figured the total amount that I had gone through in a nine
month time since knowing Bobby Allen.
below is a run down.
House hold items, clothing and furniture I lost, cause Bobby Allen was to lazy to move them after he promised he would move me entirely
53,000.00
Laptop computer that got stolen out of Harmony Station on Harmony rd 4,000.00
Clothes for him 250.00
House hold items (replacement when I packed up my stuff) 50.00
Food I brought into this house when I first moved in 4,000.00
Cash for Harmony Station to get Harmony Station started 9,000.00
Food I purchased after I moved in to feed Bobby and BJ, this includes t paper etc.until Nov. 06
2,500.00
Total Bobby went through in nine months $72,800.00
Less payment for fixing my car in Nov. 06 - 160.00
Less Payment for layout tables sold December 06 - 400.00
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Total as of Saturday, February 03, 2007 $72,240.00
Less Payment for layout table sold on Feb 3 07 -100.00
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Grand total of Feb 4th, 07 Bobby Allen owes me $72,140.00
Less payment for train bank sold in June 07, when Bobby gave up the store in Greensboro. 60.00
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Grand total as of June 07. $72,080.00
Boy how could I've been so stupid?
Sunday February 4th, 2007
Well it must be nice to have money, Bobby just came home with over 100.00 of lumber to build the wall finally. Can't wait till it goes up. Then he wont pull the curtain back peering over to so called "See if I am all right, I am awake and out of bed, nor will he be able to come over when he wants. Hasn't paid me one red dime as of yet since December of last year, but can go out purchase a car, and now lumber.
Tomorrow I am going to get a new dead bolt lock and regular lock and fix the door so it shuts and cut off the drafts that are coming in. I will be the only one with a key and well he can go around out in the cold if he wants to see me.
A friend of mine asked me to the races on a Sunday in march so I am going to go if I don't have to work. Just to get out and have some fun again which was the case before I met Bobby. Going to start living my life to the fullest while I am here and when I get my ranch, will be to busy for another relationship. Will be more cautious from here on in and wont date for a while. Definately wont fall in love again. I am done with men except as just friends to hang with or do things with. Also going into celesably. Well I didnt say that right but you all know what I mean. No more heart ache or being abused, used etc. never again am to old for baby games such as what I had gone through here. Am done and will never help anyone out again, I dont care how bad off they are from now on.
Thats the matter with Bobby. He acts so broke but can afford a 700.00 a month shop, 100.00 to 150.00 in wood for layouts, electricity for my store, phone for the store, and a new car and any thing he wants for that store but when it comes to the house such as a dryer, food for his kid, etc well its mr cheapo. Even his side of the house is empty to make people feel sorry for him because he acts so poor. Heh yeah right, so poor.
Not poor at all just to cheap and wants to live off of people free of charge, then wants to throw them in the streets in mid winter, and also still wants them to be friends with him or his girlfriend? He is crazy.
I am done with him and his shinanagans and his pitty party.
I had gone by a friend of mine and they had given me a single bed, a couch and a recliner for free all though I had offered to pay them for it, they said no, I purchased a compact refrige for my make shift kitchen with a 75.00 rewards card I received from bellsouth for my new phone service and Fred’s had a two burner thing like a stove top so I can cook on there. My make shift kitchen is complete now to where I can start living a semi normal life. Now I have to search for a job that much harder until I get one. No I want two. Put one in my bank and save for the ranch in case I do not get the grant, and the other for bills, food and what ever else I and Baby needs
Thank you for reading this let the truth be known.
Feb 11 07
Its taken me an entire week for finally get moved in, find the furniture I need, obtain my refrigerator and little table top stove thing and try and get this place straightened out and livable. thank god this is over with. one more time in moving and that is when i get a job and find my own place not some make shift apartment. A place where I and my dog have room to breath. This place looks like a normal home with places to sit, the only thing i do not like is that I have to wash cloths in the bathtub because i ca not afford to go to the laundry mat and he does not want me to purchase a small washer and dryer for it will "Msake the electric goe up." and to do dishes in the bathtub. there is no cup boards, sink, counter tops nothing in here, I had to use some shelving that I had at the old store and put some cloth over it so things won't get dusty.
The wall is finally built and locks on door on his side are changed, well except my locks he is to cheap to buy me new locks and he still has a key.
he is over here still twice a day. finally last night i told him i was not feeling good and didnt want company. I do not want him over here any more. I do not want him around me any more. I do not want to be his friend any longer. whyc ome over here.
I wrote him a letter telling him same but he was to lazy to get out of his bed and read the thing which i threw over the wall. buddy we are through. done kaput, I want nothing to do with you so leave me the heck alone. OK or are you such an imbasil that you do not know what this means. I AM NO LONGER YOUR FRIEND, I AM NO LONGER YOUR GIRLFRIEND I AM NOTHING TO YOU..................
I DO NOT DATE LIARS, CHEATS, THEIVES, CON ARTISTS ETC. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR KNOW IT ALL MIND. I DISPISE YOU AND NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
Sorry folks, I know he has been reading my blogs and if this is the only way he can see I hate him for what he had done to me then so be it. He can find someone else to screw and it wont be me anymore.
I can not wait until i find a job and am able to move out of this make shift home. i deserve better than this and better than Bobby Allen. who mind you is trailer trash. has nothing will never have nothing for first of all he does not know how to take care of it, second spends his money foolishly on a play room he doesnt need, and thirdly to make people feel badly for him "Oh I am so poor." hahaha yeah right, get rid of your play pen on broad street, sell everything and then you would have money you moron.
thats what any smart man would do.
February 15, 07
Well I've been doing pretty good, he still thinks we have something there and keeps telling me he loves me. highly unllikely, only knows I am about to get this grant soon or hear word on the grant. He has been pusing me to get a job which I am unable to find as of yet. only have applied to 61 places, but with owning my own business's for so many years they all think that I am over qualified. ha yeah right, I am willing to learn new things.
oh well, the man from the trucking company called me yesterday after yet another interview last saturday, his partners all liked me and want to hire me, but they want to come up with a salary for me since I have 8 yrs experinace in dispatching, plus they need time to merge and move which they are doing today. so here I wait.
the man told me that his partners want me but not for a month, i told him I do not have a month, the man replied to me. "Debby I am in your corner, I am going to push to get you hired sooner than that so do not count on a month, count on hopefully two weeks. so I agreed to wait but in the mean time I need something to pay my bills with.
I went down to Green county schools yesterday and applied for a job which Bobby told me they are hiring and i would come home with a job that afternoon, well still have not heard from them as well so the search goes on.
if any one knows who is hiring, please let me know asap, i've not much time to get a job and find a place to rent until I get my grant.
I do not have to worry about food, I have enough food for a while plus I am now on foodstamps until I get a job. this to me is degrading being on foodstamps. first time in my life I have ever had to ask for help with a county or government. I guess that is why I get so depressed at times for I want to work and work long hard hours, I want a job or two jobs, but am unable to find them. especially when they are all supposed to be hiring.
Bobby keeps talking to me about his intentions about the train store and just making it into a layout table store knowing how much hearing about Harmony Station hurts me in my heart, and the waste of everything including the last nine months with him. Its like he is rubbing salt in a wound just to agitate me more about it. I am trying my hardest not to be upset about all that has gone on but when he brings it up and talks about it non stop to me well its like someone taking two straps, lassoing my heart and tugging on it. it hurts to even think about it and the stupidity in which I put myself in by trusting someone and loving them at one point and time in my life to the max.
Its going to take a very long time before I ever trust people again. This is for sure. Or even date another man again. Sorry guys I know you all arent bad but well after what I've gone through in the last year, do you blame me for being this way?
This is the man who has not only stolenall of my money, but also Harmony Station. Don't do business with him. BEWARE.....
Meet BOBBY D. ALLEN
The man who conned me and now won't pay me back and has put me through a living hell.
i've contacted some attornesy about this case, they want $1,000.00 just as a retainer in order to talk to me. i wish i had a $1,000.00 for this person would be sitting pretty in jail the rest of his lifeboth for stealing my business and on a civil matter which would cost me more than 1,000.00.
February 27, 2007
I've applied at 98 places so far, yestrerday Bobby kept calling my home telling me of this landscape job and that job. He seemed to be in a hurry for me to get a job, I know why though, he thinks he is goping to pay me rent on this tiny apartment in the sum of 600.00 a month for a two bedroom, one bathroom and a tiny living room with no kitchen apartment. still to no avail a job that I can work. they will call me to let me know if i am hired, when i call them back, well its sorry we've hired someone. No wonder why unemployment is so high all though they say its low now. wrong, its high.
in the mean time I am getting my ducks in a row, getting ready for two court battles with him, one for the business, and the other for civil. as stated before, I have all of the evidence to prove my case and I will win, unless Bobby Allen pays off the judge here, which he will do. I've called six attornesy to see how much i will need to sue Bobby Allen, geesh they want an arm and a leg that I do not have yet until I get a job. I may have to fight this on my own which I can do anyway and save that money. But there is a few more things I need to do first but am abiding my time on those things.
he's finally talked to the attorney down in Macon about payment arrangements on this lawsuit for providion financial, he wrote a letter to the attorney telling the attorny that he can afford to pay them $15.00 a month. ha yeah right, he can pay them more.
Bobby told me that he has two more payments of $300.00 each on the car and that car will be paid off, well where are payments to me? do i have to take you to c ourt to get money out of you for what you owe me? i guess I will have to.
Any way I have my apartment done and have settled in nicely, I've not been kicked out as of yet but this I know why as well and am just going to play the game. He only wants me for his use if you all know what I mean, oh now i do not want to sound cheap which I am not, but well I will do what it takes to keep a roof over my head, and in mean time collect evidence, get more ducks in a row, and then lower the boom when least he least expects me to.
03/09/2007
Things are starting to look up for me. I’ve found a job. Its not the greatest job in the world but it’s a start to help bring in money for me to save up and get out of this situation I am in.
Also with the help of some good friends of mine, I will be moving out of here in a month to two months from now. I will be moving 115 miles away from here, away from Bobby Allen, his lies, deceit etc., Never to see him again… Whoohoo, never to go through what I’ve gone through in the last seven months of constant lies and his free ride. I will have to transfer my job but this is all right. But I am on my way to a better life to get back up to the middle class way of life that I am accustomed to prior to meeting Bobby Allen.
He does this to all of his friends and anyone who comes in contact with him, then leaves them alone for fifteen years until he thinks people forget about what he has done to them. Then calls on them when he needs help again. They don’t forget nor will I. I will never have dealings with him again after I move except for a lawsuit on him for my $12,300.00 which is the only part of the money he has taken from me out of that 73,000.00 that I will be able to collect. If he does not pay me, it will be jail time for him. I will see to this as well.
I know I will never see my money from Harmony Station again so I will have to do what I have to do in order to seek justice legally.
He told me the other night that he is going to sell all of the trains in the store and pay me and another fellow, his other friend back the money he that owes us and just build layout tables. Well he has not had an order for these as well in a month’s time. He is trying to con a man who purchased our big layout in November of last year before all this started taking place of him kicking me out of my own store into adding on to his layout for $10,000.00. It won’t cost that much to add on to this mans layout this I know for a fact. Bobby is upset that the guy is not making up his mind to add on now. That the guy is procrastinating, in adding on to his current layout right at this point and time.
I am not going to give him any money from my paychecks. It’s going to go toward me from now on. My new housing needs such as my future rent until my grant comes in, bills and myself. No more will I ever get conned like this again. It’s his fault I am broke and living the way I am living. From middle class to scum.
I am going to bounce back to my middle class way of life, if I have to work two jobs seven days a week and put in as much over time as the company will allow me to put in. Then put as much money away as I can to get out of here and move 115 miles away from here and this situation. My friends say they will also help me get up some more money as well and I do not have to pay them back until I get a better paying job. That they will help me any way they can. Thank God for true good friends, when I thought all was hopeless.
At least I do not have to use my friends for all they have to get what I want, its offered to me which there will be a signed statement of my payment arrangements to them. I pay my bills on time now to make sure no one gets angry with me or hurt feelings tear us apart. I am a woman of my word and will stay this way. Honest, dependable and hard working.
03/13/2007
Well I’ve found a job the other day and filled out all of the paperwork tonight. I was ready for work, but I won’t know my work schedule until Sunday, I had also found a motel job but knowing I would be putting in a lot of hours 40-48 hours a week to be exact at the new first job, I would not make it on three hours of sleep six out of seven days a week. I called the second boss and told her I was not going to take that job. I am not a spring chicken any more can’t work 16 hours a day like Bobby Allen wants me to do.
This made Bobby Allen mad. He now is telling me he has closed the store and will open on Thursday, Friday and Saturday in hopes that he makes a sale. That the store has been dead, gee I wonder why.
Then this evening, he told me while being upset about me not only quitting the second job and me not being able to start the first job or find out my schedule until Sunday after I asked him why he was so concerned about my job situation all of a sudden, that it was my problem, he told me that he is planning on selling this dump of a trailer, or rent this dump out to someone else. This place smells as a sewer to so he can make money. THIS PLACE SHOULD BE CONDEMED AND TORN DOWN. He cant smell the stench when he comes in my part of the house.
(BEWARE NO ONE PURCHASE THIS PLACE ITS FALLING APART) PIPES KEEP BREAKING, IT SMELLS LIKE A SEWER IN HERE ESPECIALLY MY SIDE OF THE HOUSE, ITS ROTTING AWAY, THE TREES ARE ABOUT TO FALL ON IT, AND BUGS KEEP COMING IN THE HOUSE AND HE IS TO CHEAP TO PAY FOR AN EXTERMINATOR WHEN I MOVED IN IT WAS WALL TO WALL COCKROACHES.) he still owes 30.00 from the last time I had the exterminator come in and spray. He still has not paid on this bill and they will be coming after him soon, then he said he will file bankruptcy on everyone. He and his son will then move into an apartment with his son or leave town all together to run away from his problems and his reputation which will follow him..
He’s also threatened me that if I go to the sheriffs about the fraud that has gone on with the store, the attempted grand theft auto etc or if I stur up problems for him, he will throw all of my things in the street. I will have no where to go.
I replied back to him, “well just give me until June and I will be long gone from here, you’re not going to pay me my money back any way. With that money, I could have had me a place by now and you wouldn’t have to worry. I now will have to beg my ex to help me out with money for a little while until I get my first paycheck. Now I have to beg him to help me with living arrangements for I am planning to move to the Atlanta area were I can find a good job.” He didn’t say a word back to me.
Here are my plans for life. Which will take effect if only I can stay here till June.
1. Work at the new job until April
2. Move in April to new home in Atlanta.
3. Find a good paying job as I transfer my new job up there and work temp. (did this)
4. Go back to school for my business degree or go on for my insurance license
5. Save money
6. In mean time work on and complete my novels
7. Have some of my novels published
8. When grant comes in
9. Purchase my ranch and build my dream home
10. Move to ranch
11. Start ranch while going to school and work
12. Become a best selling author
13. Start up my old trucking company again
14. Continue to write and tour
15. Add on to ranch so it supports itself
Live happily ever after.
Then he tells me this evening that he was going to sit outside on back porch with me after he ate but well this has not transpired for I wanted to talk to him about his new decision about moving next month. What I really think it is, is he has a honey on the side and wants his cake from me to and its not going to happen any more. Yet he still tells me he loves me. Love to him is using a person until they are all tapped out then throws them away like a rag and treats them like dirt.
He only comes over here when he wants some if you know what I mean.
He also wants to move to Colorado. Hahaha his reputation will follow him every where he goes.
03/15/2007
Well this is all new information which has now transpired. Bobby is hurting for badly for money now to pay his bills and has decided that he wants to start a moving company. As if his reputation will not precied him. The name of his moving company will be named “Allen Moving Co..” 1410 Pullman lane, Greensboro, Ga. He may use the address of 107 E. Broad Street as an office as told to me. BEWARE. HE DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO MOVE THINGS WITH OUT BREAKING THEM OR SCRATCHING THEM UP NOR IS HE INSURED AND BONDED.
A LOT OF M7Y STUFF HAD GOTTEN BROKEN AND SCRATCHED WHILE HE MOVED ME here in June of last year 2006.
Here he would rent a u-haul and help move you. He is going to close down the store Harmony Station and just sell trains on the side and take orders of layout tables while moving furniture and homes.
Me, well I am moving on with my life, I’ve applied for a good paying job in the Griffin, Jonesboro, Columbus areas of Ga, SOON TO BE CONATCED AND WILL DEFINITELY BE MOVING BY THE 10TH OF NEXT MONTH OR BY JUNE THE LATEST, mostly will be next month, which I will be moving soon to get away from Bobby Allen and his son.
Again do not do business with a rip off artist, he will take you all for a ride like he did me. He thinks he will make more money than being on his dump truck with Oconee Sand and Gravel. DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE NAME Allen or Bobby Allen, his sons name is Bobby Allen Jr. or BJ Allen. OH I CAN NOT WAIT TO GET OUT OF HERE WHOOHOO… STARTED PACKING AND EXCITED NOW THAT I FINALLY FIGURED OUT AND WILL HAVE A GOOD FUTURE AHEAD OF ME.
He will just over price you all. So beware, he is money hungry also beware of his name Bobby Allen or anything that associates with Bobby Allen. He will rip you all off badly. He is money hungry for sure and will eaither cheat his way or con his way into your life to make you give up your hard-earned money.
HE THINKS CAUSE HIS DAD USED TO HAVE A GOOD NAME IN THE MOVING BUSINESS THAT HE WILL, THIS I DO NOT THINK SO, NOT AFTER ALL HE’S DONE TO ME AND EVERYONE ELSE ASSOCIATED WITH HIM PRIOR TO ME.
Well Bobby Allen Is at it again.
The last few days its been in the high 80’s here. He does not run the air for my dog during the day and the other day when I came home from work, yes I finally found a good job I like and I get paid well, my dog was panting so hard I thought she was about to die on me.
Yesterday 03/27/2007 I went to purchase a fan and ran it today 03/28/2007 I kept the fan on medium just to keep my part of the house cool for her which worked.
At 8:00 p.m. I was sitting out on the porch and noticed a new white SUV in the yard. I asked him what happened to the one he just bought. He replied he traded that one in because the front end was going on it and he “needed wheels to get around.” Ha that car was perfectly good except that it needed struts on the front.
He then told me that he had traded his other car in and the man used what he paid on the other car in the amount of $1,000.00 toward this SUV. And that he has 12 payments of 200.00 and something dollars with no down payment. Heh yeah right.
I then told him about my part of the hosue being hot, he lied to me and told me that he had turned on the air conditioner and that I should shut my windows. This I did, I went into my bedroom where my fan is and its so hot in there, this house is an oven. I then got up off the bed and went to feel the vents in the house, no cool air is blowing from the vents. I then went outside and listened to the air conditioner outside. This to is not working.
I asked him if he is trying to chase me out of here sooner than my expected moving weekend of the 6th, he replied “No what makes you say this.” I told him well first you throw me on the other side of the house after using up my money which I am not getting paid for, then you are trying to sufficate my dog, and not turn on the air conditioner, etc.” he replied no I am not trying to push you out. I love you. Why would I do a thing like that.”
I then made a remark to him then why arent you paying me back. You have no intentions of paying me back yet you still want me as your girlfriend or should I say ex girlfriend. He replied “you know I cant afford it. I am in such a tight right now. You will get paid things are getting better for me soon.”
I thought to my self, yeah hand me another lie, well buddy I have plans for you big time before I move. Which I do have a lot of plans for him. By the time I get done with him he will be arrested, locked up in jail, with no job when he comes out and he will be sued.
I have not seen a payment of any sorts since February 25th, 2007 and since last November I’ve only been paid the sum of 500.00 on a $12,800.00 loan that I put into Harmony Station. Now the sum is 12,300.00 in which he still insists of paying me only $3,700.00.
But yet when I move he wants to come to my house, date me and take me out and see me. He tries to give me hugs and I shreak when he touches me. I cut him off and try not to either be home, or when I am home I go to bed early to avoid him.
He’s offered to help me move. Hell no way. I do not want him to know were I am at, my address, phone numbers etc I want nothing to do with him when I leave at all. The further away from him I am the happier I will be which I will be a little over 100 miles from him yeeeeeehaaaaaa. Then it will be party time.
I now am packing more and more of my things and getting ready to move, the weekend of the 6th I will go looking for a place of my own closer to work and that same weekend I will move from this hell I am in.
4/22/07
Well today I just sat down and had the time in between working full time and moving into my own home that I recently purchased, to figure out the grand total of how much Bobby Allen really owes me, or should I say has stolen from me besides stealing Harmony Station away from me behind my back and putting me through a living hell for 6 months.
The grand total of theft and extortion from me is $17,495.08 since last August of 2006 since we first opened Harmony Station. Then he has the balls to turn around and steal the store, put me into a make shift apartment with no kitchen which is only 2 bedrooms, a bathroom and a small living room. Thus building a wall from the main house and changing locks were I had to make a make shift kitchen in February of 2007 to cook in. Thinking that he is so smart, but he really is not. I want to see him lie his way out of the court when I file and take his fat ass to court. I have lots of proof and evidence that all of this happened like three minella envelopes full of stuff, financial statements, bank statements pictures and receipts that I will take with me. If he can not pay I will either garnishee his wages since I have not received a payment since February of 2007 or have his ass locked up in jail. Looks like jail time for him for sure. Would love to see him locked up permanently so he doesn’t do this to any one else that comes in his path.
This man is bad news and who ever comes near him, don’t trust him. His layout tables aren’t all that good and he is over charging people for layout tables. For example, a 4x6 table he is charging $900.00, which used to be 300.00 and up for the bigger sizes of layout tables
This total is from all of the receipts that I took and paid for out of both of my savings that I had before meeting bobby Allen, selling of my horse and personal items, alimony etc.
I have now filled out the paperwork for court and will be taking it down to Greensboro on Monday along with dropping off the paperwork and pictures to DEFAC of the way he is raising his son. Not good at all.
He right now is hard up for money and will cheat anyone who walks either in the store or in his path for money. Girls beware big time. EVERRYONE BEWARE BIG TIME HE IS A THEIF THAT MAKES FRIENDS WITH HIM AND HAS THEM PUT TRUST INTO HIM THEN HE AND HIS SON BJ USES THEM BIG TIME FOR ALL THEY CAN GET OUT OF A PERSON. TAKE THIS FROM A PERSON WHO LOST OUT $17,495.08 IN HER LIFE SAVINGS NOT TO MENTION THE 4,000.00 IN FOOD I BROUGHT TOT HE HOUSE, AND THE FOOD OF 2,000.00 I PURCHASED UNTIL I WENT ON FOOD STAMPS THAT I AM NOW OFF OF.
My life now is much better. As stated I have a job making good money, I moved 100 miles away from Bobby Allen the thief and his son who is following in his daddy’s foot steps and headed to jail himself. I’ve just as of the 6th of April put a down payment on a double wide mobile home which in two years will be mine, plus my grant will be coming in, in November to build my dream home and start my rescue ranch.
In a week I will be applying for school and going back to school for my bachelors degree in business management which I already know about but would like to learn more and continue to write on top of working, and going to school and starting the ranch.
I am the real owner of Harmony Station and want to see this store fail now that he has stolen it away from me. Please people stay away from it and Bobby Allen who thinks he owns Harmony Station. He just stole it away from me so he is not the true owner of this store.
Boycott this store please.
April, 25, 2007
After giving me a sob story about loosing his house a week ago Sunday tonight Bobby Allen called me, told me he is back to renting his dump of a house and was happy about that. Ok fine they have a dump to live in. He is known to use sob stories to get people to give him what he wants so what else is new. He’s promised to come and see me but yet in the three weeks since I’ve moved has made no attempt in coming to where I live and visit me. Non what so ever but yet tells me he still loves me. Again another lie.
He then broke the news to me that he has filed Bankruptcy on all of his creditors, he reassured me that I and Marty were not on the bankruptcy at all that “he wouldn’t do this to us”.
He told me he is paying Marty, the guy who took the title to my pickup back in November of 2006. That he has a debt of over $200,000.00. That he will be working in the dirt hole at Oconee Sand and Gravel for the rest of his life.
An acquaintance of mine sent pictures of the stolen items to Oconee Sand and Gravel. Bobby stealing a load of dirt, a wheelbarrow that he so called borrowed last year, along with garden tools and a bag of grass seed, which has since gotten back to me through the grapevine that they have sent pictures and a letter. Nothing has been done about the stealing problem over at Oconee Sand and Gravel. This shows you the kind of place he works for who must also be crooks themselves to keep on a thief. They still have not reprimanded Bobby Allen for stealing those items, which most places would automatically, fire a person for stealing their stuff and them loosing money. This goes to show you the kind of place he works for and lives in as well
I told him straight out. I did not believe him about not putting me on the bankruptcy after all of the lies he’s been giving me since we met. I would believe that I am not on the bankruptcy until I see it. He does and I will then take my paperwork to the courts and counter sue him and see him locked up in jail. I only have three mennilla envelopes full of evidence to see him locked up and or garnisheed
He insisted that he is going to pay me back. This time he promised the entire amount of $12,800.00. Again I do not believe him at all until I see this. HOW CAN HE AFOFRD A BANKRUPTCY ATTORNEY AND NOT AFFORD TO PAY ME????
I have not called him nor do I wish to call him, but if I do not start getting payment of some sort with in a month to two months I will file suit. I need that money of mine to purchase a bedroom suit, a washer and dryer, and kitchen chairs and right now I am on layoff due to a bad happening at work. Now I purchased this house of mine and well I will be forced to go back with my ex husband if I am unable to make the payments.
I do not want to get married or have anything to do with men for a long, long time after what I’ve just been through with men and Bobby Allen.
Bobby wants me and has requested me to delete this website but I decided not to do this. I feel that everyone should know what is going on, who cares about me and my store Harmony Station and what kind of a person Bobby really is.
With all that has gone on in this my very last relationship I've changed my attitude toward men major. I used to think men were the answer to security and true love. This I was badly mistaken.
After being abused, both mentally and verbally by others, and lied to and stolen from by a man I once loved very much and would have given my life for, I no longer trust the word of a man any longer. Therefore I've decided to stay alone, no man in my life and finally think of myself and my wants in life.
Since I have moved, yes, Bobby and I were seeing one another until he got his second job on the weekends a month ago, which I've still not been paid one penny since last June toward my portion of Harmony Station which was promised he would do. I have not gotten any money back on the trains that I've purchased, which he says he sent back and got money back to pay his bills and such and he has been trading some of those trains off for his personal use.
I still have receipts and a box full of them from what I've paid for along with bank statements. I am so happy that Bobby has gotten his second job on the weekends. I had thought that he would finally make payments to me out of this check but well this is not going to happen,. I think Bobby's new job is a god send now he keeps busy and doesn't come here all of the time all though I do sometimes miss him. he isn't paying my money back to me and he is getting ahead but oh well thats the bigggg city slicker ways of doing things but yet he wants a future with me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....
HAAHAHAHAHAHA I must laugh at such a thought. Me go back to a man who stole my dignity, self worth, self esteem, stolen all of my money, put me on food stamps at one time, and had treated me less than a dog in the end keeping me in a hot house and almost hurting my dog while I was living with him?
Me go back to a man who doesn't pay his debts to me or anyone else or keeps his promise to me of paying me back my money he owes me as promised? Then wants to marry me and live in my big house on my ranch free of charge to be supported by me and refuses to sign a prenuptual agreement a legal document so that he can take everything that I am working hard for now? or me move back down to Greensboro were he is in that hell whole only to be treated the same way again?
No way and I am not stupid. Not until he can prove to me that he is trust worthy and is a man of his word which he is not or he would be Paying me back the money he owes me and has told me that he would pay me back. I will be his friend but I will not Marry him or anyone until I make darn sure via a signed legal documents that I will not loose what I am working oh so hard to rebuild.
Since his word or the word of any man is all lies now days, well I might as well be better off with out a man, or a mate in my life and keep plowing forward hard in my life time just me, my dog my future animals and business's for I have no more time for horseshit in my life nor do I want it. Just because a man wants off of his dump truck and sees an EASY way of life in his future. I am not falling for this one ever again.
I've since decided to further myself since I've recently found out that Bobby Allen decided and has insisted that he doesn't own me a penny.
Forget about him, God will punish him in the long run and give him his just or he will meet someone just like him who will screw him over as he has done to many.
As for myself, I've decided and have started my own business being an Independant Trucking Dispatch agent for truckdrivers with their own authority. I have two clients now and one is a major client to where I will make a good living, I then have recently opened up an Ebay store and am working on reinstating my own trucking authority for my own trucking company were I will purchase my own 5 rigs and trailers and run them stricktly under my own dispatch.
After this, since that grant fell through I will then pay off my current home, and move to the deep country and start my rescue ranch and hold down all 4 business's to where I will be to busy for any man to be in my life. I then also will build my dream home, a 3500 sq foot log cabin home custom to my design.
There I and my dog will live and the wranglers who will work for me can live in the homesteads or mobile homes that I will place on my property. I then will live happily ever after with out a man in my life.
I will be better off and since I do not trust anyone any longer, No one will live with me, just myself and my lovely dog who is my best friend of all of the world, Baby. After this has been accomplished I will then purchase another ranch back home in Wyoming and use this as my summer home or a place of seclusion for myself just to get away for a while from the stress's of being a business owner. I long to see home once again and will in due time. Maybe start yet another business if these four do not keep me busy enough.
So this is my story about my old business, my ex boyfriend and basically of my life. You know now what to look for if you should decide to go into business with a boyfriend, partner, a friend or family. Don't do this for they are all greedy and will lie to obtain their so called status in life and steal everything from you, from your dignity, your pride, money and life. Not giving a hoot about you or your finances or even keeping a promise of paying you back. Then has the nerve to wanting to get back into your life again thinking that your going to be some sort of fool and go through the same crap all over again. Not this fool. Not me am not going through this kind of BS any longer,.
This is a joke and makes me laugh so hard. Those who have hurt me must now prove to me that they are true to their word and will back up their word with actions. This Bobby has not done as to todays date 8/27/07. So why should I go back? What does he have to offer me? sex? hahaha cant pay bills on sex, cant get ahead in life on sex. Do I go back to him just because I still have feelings for him? no this is not the way to go any more. Feelings does not pay the lost money back, it does not heal the hurt all this had given to me, had not made things better for me in a time of need, it did not give me a happy future nor does empty promises. This is not real love nor is sex.
Real love is working together, being honest, and helping build the integrity of others, it is helping one who is down and out not throwing them into a 1/4 portion of a mobile home and keeping them in a hot house or almost killing their dog in an 85 degree oven house just to save on money.
Love is not thinking about strickly sex or money as well, its loving someone whole heartedly and backing them in their endevors in life and keeping your word and your promises. Its lending a helping hand and paying back your debts to those you owe instead of insisting you do not owe it especially when that person can back up their own work by proof.
Love is caring about others and worry about then when they are not around and making an attempt so see the one you love no matter how much money you have, how much you are working.
Love is a partnership a give and take thing and if a person only takes time just thinking about their own greed and wants in life with out giving back or paying a debt then this is truly not love at all. Its just using those around you for your own so called gain. Me, I do not like to be used at all or lied to. I do not like to be stole from. Those people are no good and are of no use to me,.
THEY ARE NON IMPORTANT AND NON EXISTANT IN MY LIFE ANY LONGER. Yes, I will act as a friend but that will be the extent of it all, just someone to talk to, nothing more until proven to me that they are honorable and trust worthy people whom I will be able to trust in my life now and in the future.
If they do not want to sign any legal documents such as a dating agreement or a prenuptual acreement then they do not need me or love me enough to have me in their world and in their lives. This just shows to me that they really do not care for me they are only after three things, sex, money and the "Good life" sorry guys its not going to happen. Stay away. I am not interested in such a relationship nor do I want a relationship such as this.
Those who want me in their lives will sign any and all legal documents places before them with out hesitation concerning me, my business's and my money or my future money that I will have.
I am done with low life men, I am done with liars cheats and thieves. I have myself and my future to think about now not to mention my dog and my busnesses now days. Accept this or well take a hike.
I SUPPORT NO MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DO NOT AND WILL NOT ASSOCIATE WITH A THIEF. BOBBY IS A THIEF.
WORD OF WARNING:
If you go into business go into it yourself and keep faith in the good Lord, he will be the only honest being to guide you though trials and tribulations along with be there as your best friend through out your life. God is not out to get you, he wants to see you all have better and live a fulfilled and happy life.
January 3rd, 08.
Then in November has told me that he had traded all of the trains off for trains that he wanted. now as of December 07 has stopped taking my calls, has not returned my phone calls at all and now I am unable to get a hold of him.
Well things have gotten better for me, yes Bobby has stopped all communication towards me after begging me to still first of all be his girlfriend and second of all wanted me to take down this site which i will not do, as of December 24th 07 and January 08 he has refused to answer his telephones to me nor has returned my phone calls after i was kind enough to want to wish him a Merry Christmas only and a happy new year.
today I called his phone and left him a nice message that this is the year I will be collecting on all of my money one way or another. but i will see to it he is either put in jail or will be garnisheed from his wages both places to pay me back at least half of what he owes me, but i'd rather see him in jail. So I am biding time and no one will know when I will be filing to the courts a lawsuit on Bobby allen but I have made up my mind i am now going to do this.
I am going to do something about his laying, cheating, butt legally and yes I do have a lot of proof pictures etc. This is the year to get my money back...
Thank you
Debby
January 29th 2008
Well I’ve been tryin to get a hold of Bobby Allen fer two weeks now. He doesn’t seem to answer to his phones at all…. ha both phone numbers his cell phone or his home phone. I keep calling his phone and fer one who supposes to love me dear or supposed to love me ha well he doesn’t answer his phone at all. Like I was told by others who were true blue, Bobby Allen is a fake all right he uses people then stops friendships and does not contact them at all once he's ripped them off. but I put trust into him why I never know why he tells to many lies and stories so’s to support him.
Could it be he’s avoiding my phone calls? Could it be he’s afraid I will go to sheriffs with the information I got on him. Well he better be lookin over his shouldier fer a long, long time.
Fer when I strike I will strike good with out him even know it.
Yes it seems so cause I will do something to hang his ass in this scam and send him to jail no matter where he runs and hides to.
He’s runnin scared and is yeller to face up to what he did.; he is runnin scared and doesn’t want to talk to me. That’s why he doesn’t answer my phone calls any more… This should tell you all something right quick….
He’s dealt with a true westerner and we always have our justice I always get my justice. he screwed me like he’s going to screw you all I promise you all this so be ware of my heed.. no matter where he goes to Colorado to Greensboro, Ga or where ever he will screw anyone who crosses him who he thinks has money.. take it from one who been screwed just a westerner from Wyoming hehehehe I tell the truth all of the time. Or this log would not be up and running
I pitty those who do not have the internet who does not know the biggest con of Georgia ever and I was warned but did not take heed. Now I am warning you all please take heed with who you deal with. he is in collections right now after he's gone to bankrupcy court lol he taint do a thing about this one
Oh by the way he isnt deaf like he says he is he only acts as if he is deaf to get attention........... This I found tis out from his Doctor....... he likes to play he's deaf but hes not even near deaf.......... This holds true for his son BJ. He too acts deaf but really isn't its all to get attention to make people feel bad fer then and give them pitty.But again I will seek revenge legally when the time is right and have access to do so I pounce like a cat heheheheheh so BOBBY ALLEN YOUR screwed and taint run from this one.
LOL NO MATTER WERE I MAY BE, NO MATTER WHAT I AM DOING I ALWAYS MAKE MY WAY DOWN THERE AND KNOW WERE YOU LIVE..
PHYSICAL ADDRESS OF BOBBY ALLEN IS
1410 PULLMAN LANE
GREENSBORO, GA 30642
Oh btw go look at this website tells all about us
http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/233/RipOff0233067.htm
Dont have no de4alins with this person for he is a very bad person
THANK YOU ALL FER READIN THIS
I want to thank all who's read this website.and who have supported me in this ordeal. In total as of todays date a total of over 2500 people have read this website from coast to coast in the USA and in other countries besides.I forgot to tell you with my life since I left Greensboro, and Bobby Allen. Yes I got laid off from my job and two months later in march of 07 I started my own business as a dispatcher for owner operators with their own authority. My business has gotten successful.
Next month February of 08 I plan to purchase to big rigs and reinstate my authority for my trucking company and work my way to my ranch. The grant had fell through so I am working 20+ hours a day 7 days a week including holidays and weekends to make it and to obtain my rigs and trailers.
With the income from both my dispatch service and my rigs I then will look for some land to purchase and start the ranch up and pay off my mobile home. I may sell it or I may keep this mobile home I have not made up my mind on as of yet what I want to do.
Now that I work all the time I really don’t have time for nonsence in my life which I’ve cut out complentely and am pursuing my dreams goals aspirations a little at a time.
2/20/08
One more little ditty about Bobby Allen, this also is a man who sold his mothers car while she was in the hospital due to a car wreck. He sold her house out from under her while being in the hospital and have stole money from his own mother.
All of the money he obtained from selling his mothers house and her car, he kept for his own bills and to get ahead in life. This I have a very good source who told me this.
He's just a low life sex maniac who loves to beat his self off if he does or does not have a woman in his life and who steals everything until she is ruined.
I would beware as well for he might now exposed start stealing people Identities if given the chance. Thats how ruthless this man is...Me with in the last year, I’ve made a come back, I now have a lot of money in the bank and my dispatch business going strong, along with reinstating my own authority of late and my own rig and trailer up and running.
I have my dispatch company thus making a lot of money, owning my own home, cars are paid free and clear and all my bills are paid in full each month. My credit is cleared up now and I am living happily ever after with out Shit Ass Allen and his son in my life.
In a year or two I will be working on my dream ranch and own more trucks and trailers and keep building both my business’s and my ranch.
I am doing fairly well with in the last 10 months of leaving Bobby Allen. I also have my dignity back just like the way it used to be. I am now living my life happily ever after. This was a lesson well learned to not only not trust men again but also not to trust anyone or everyone i meet, like I used to.
I made it people, I am self sufficient and have lots of money and my own life now. I now have My own mobile home in Ga here far away from the thief which I am now fixing up nice inside and out, a successful dispatch business for owner operators with their own authority, I am working on reinstating my own trucking authority and purchasing one KW 900L with a Great Dane Trailer and get my own trucking company back up and running full swing. I have a new grandson who was born February 4th, 2008 who is my main man in my life from now on no more dating for me for a very long time to any one. I now have a life of my own that I am enjoying to the fullest. Last but not least in two to three years, I will finally own that ranch that I've been talking about for so long and still plan to publish my books that when I have time still work on. Yes all this has taken a lot of hard work and persevairance but I made it in my life.
The scum bag will pay one way or another if not by me but by our Good lord on judgment day. What comes around goes around. Always remember this Bobby Allen. Your day is coming soon.
Thank youDebby Richardson owner of Harmony Station.
4/17/08 update
Well now that I have my trucking company up and running, my dispatch company running strong as well, I am now also going to be a freight broker agent in the next two weeks. I have not failed as Bobby Allen had hoped I would. In the near future I will be working on my books again and getting the manuscripts published again to when time allows for now I am a busy person who's life has turned for the better with the help of our Gracious Lord.
This message is for Bobby Allen who I know is keeping watch on this website:
This website will not go down or be taken off the internet until I receive my money in full.
this website will and has followed you everywhere in the USA over 4000 + people has hit this website along with the other website I have up about this. It will continue to grow until payment of the following amount is paid in full to me. Total you now owe me is $72,140.00. When this is all paid in full, then this website and the other I have up will finally go down.
Again here is the person who has taken me and others for a ride
Bobby Allen, your day is coming real soon and I mean real soon... your day in court will appear before you know it. hahahahahahahah beleive me or not; but its coming real soon and sooner than you think. yes been sayin this but well keep watch over your shouldier for it is and I promise you this..... afte4r all am a woman of my word............. I am a westernter you thought you took as a fool.
He has also since moved from pullman lane in Greensboro, Ga to 1130 credille pond road in greensboro, Ga. but he is so broke..... I wonder who he is screwing now for money.
Bobby Allen, you can run but you can not hide.
August 14, 2008
Things with me since I moved in April of 2007 have been looking up, I have leased purchased my mobile home, paid off $8,000.00 dollars of past bills with only around $2,500.00 in debt left to pay off, cleared off some inquires I did not give permission to off my credit report and have cleaned this off pretty good still a few inquires on there that I have to wait to get off next year.
I had a dispatch company but with the fuel sky rocketing had went down hill to were I had no work for the last 5 months, soI decided to take a transportation broker course and have with in the last month obtained my journeyman transportation certificate and next month will be taking the last three days of school to obtain my master broker license and certificate to become a master broker for a major brokerage firm.
The school I am attending will help place me were I will right off have a good paying job and still can work from home. I also have a saving account were I now have a little money put back and some money in my checking account.
I’ve taught myself to budget money better than I used to and also have obtained furniture for my home including new furniture such as a bedroom suit, dining room suit, and a shed to store my lawnmower and some other items.
I also am a new grandmother and have been helping my daught4er with my grandson who was born on February 4th of this year, yes I am a proud grandma.
I then plan on saving my money, pay off my mobile home, purchase me a small farm maybe 24 acres of land somewhere in upper west Georgia or in between south Georgia and west Georgia, place my mobile home on it and live in it till I get the farm house in order and painted, then move into there. I want to start up a few projects to help bring in an income on top of brokering and then try and get my trucking company up and running besides the farm with activities and such and then later on purchase more land and keep building the farm into a real ranch.
I am a strong woman who has come very far in a year and a half and plan on continuing on with my plans till my dreams, goals and wants are all accomplished with in the years to come, this also includes freelance writing on the side and hopefully publishing my manuscripts that are completed later on down the line.
Well howdy everyone, geesh I know it’s been a few years since I’ve wrote on this log, but well it takes just about that to get ones life back in the order it should be after being taken for a ride by a Jack ass.
During the five years I’ve bettered my living conditions, I thought at one point and time I was purchasing a mobile home in Jonesboro, Ga which was not the case, again I was lied to and taken for a ride of, so well I lived there for almost four years and decided that is not what I wanted or were I wanted to live.
I’ve in the last five years had two businesses one a dispatch service for truckers in which I had done fairly well on, then I decided in life I wanted more so I went to Arizona to obtain my freight brokers license in which I had done. While I was there I took a small mini vacation and went to see the Grand Canyon which I’ve never in my life seen and Tombstone and got to stand were Wyatt Earp stood when the shoot out at the Ok coral took place. Man that was fun; I got to see more of this beautiful country as well while I was on my way home from Arizona.
During this time I still wrote articles for pay along with got my freight brokerage up and running, I had saved my money while living with my ex husband who at the time also needed help and then June of this year 2010 purchased a 2000 sq ft ranch style home of my own on 5 acres of land. Yeeeeeeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaaaaaa no more living like trailer trash… hahaha I AM A HOME OWNER AND LOVIN IT…. the twist is now, I now own a farm again. Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
The house is newly renovated with granite counter tops, laminate flooring, new paint through out, new fixtures in the bathroom, etc. the place is sturdy as well, were I do not have to do anything inside the home, I do have to clear trees and am in the process of cleaning up over grown shrubs, and clearing out spots I feel would make great pastures for horses.
I also have a pool area which I am in the process of staging when time allows, and also almost done with the patio area all I have to do there is build a bench that I will be working on in two weeks, the first bench in on the screened porch for more seating. Don’t worry, I like to reused things or make them into something else. So no money is wasted here.
My new home has a screened in porch which I made in to an out door room were we can go out and smoke since smoking is not allowed in the house. It has a workshop, a barn, a tack room, a garden room, a garage, car ports, all the things I wanted except pastures but I can put these in myself. I plan on making this an income property by raising and breeding pure bred German Shepherds, goats, chickens and have fresh eggs in the morn, goat cheese and goat milk, and board a few horses. Not to mention sell my quilt comforters I also make and have been selling for quite some time and still sell my crafts that are many that I also make and put up in the winter. Not to mention still work on my brokerage part time. There is plenty here to keep me out of trouble with men hahahaha.
I am back in the country and back in my element of life, but will not say were I am, for I do not want Bobby Allen to even attempt to try and see me. Last I heard about him is he is hitched and has a baby girl who he loves to death. God help her and his old lady when she is older for her daddy will go after her after he leaves her mamma for some stupid reason or when his wife’s money or wife’s daddy’s money runs out, Look at BJ raised with out a proper home and when one comes in to give them one they rebel and boss around and take what they could. But this is none of my business. I do also now keep my nose out of others business and to myself. I come to the attitude big rippin deal it’s your life clean it up like I had to. I rightly don’t give a rat’s ass what goes on in another’s life; I have my own problems and things to deal with.
Ok enough dwelling on the past, I am now in the future and see a lot of nice things happening to me. I’ve come a long way baby and have decided never again to court a man again or even get hitched again and have taken my self off of the market permanently. Today’s way of dating does not suit me, and this I figured out after only having two boyfriends after my divorce, five years ago. It just goes to show you with perseverance, determination, and dedication, and mind set you can achieve anything you put before you to better ones life.
I became a grandmother three years ago to the cutest little bouncing baby boy whose name is JJ. The proudest moment of my life. He is the Apple of my eye for sure.
I am very happy the way I am and in my life now days, free, white, single and successful in my own farm and home which I am building by hand little by little in which I will make this also an income property on top of having my freight brokerage. Why would I let someone get in the way of my happiness? I am not, I am now married to my farm and I finally after all this time am back to loving life to the fullest out in the boon docks of the big city.
I’ve even cut out a lot of my old bad habits such as shopping stupidly, drinking (no time for it and it’s too expensive), trying to cut down on cussing but this is hard since I was raised by wranglers lol and my grand daddy. Now days I drink nothing but power aid, pop, and joe (coffee), I am back in my own element of life in which I am truly happy and not stuck with some jerk in my life whom I have to wait on hand and foot. I am now free to use my own mind and do what I want to do in life and this I am doing. I’ve lost a lot of weight, grew my hair out, and work all of the time which tuckers me out now and am in bed by 10:30 pm at the latest. I’ve even stopped chattin in them blame chat rooms; never did a thing for me any how. I’ve gotten rid of people who were nasty to me, who pretended to be my friend, and who just used me. I stay away from most people for I do not trust hardly a soul any more since this incident.
I also stay put on my farm most of the time for there is plenty here to keep me busy and occupied and if not, I find things to do with my time such as make things like the curtains on my screened porch, I re upholstered the couch by hand, I made some boot planters and built a bench for the screened room, I made beautiful hanging baskets and put face flowers in them, I am always coming up with new ideas to beautify this house by making my own things instead of spending money on stuff, now I feel like my home is my home for I do make a lot of stuff and or fix a lot of stuff on my own. Yes I am a proud home owner.
I’ve become successful, sure not in my writing per say yet but in the freight brokerage which I am now a certified master broker who moves freight over seas, through out the USA and Canada and I get paid fairly well but yet not to rip another person off. I own my own business, and now I own what will be the Golden Circle D farms soon and later turn it into a huge ranch. Am I going to be a fool, to have someone take this from me who wants a free ride after working my butt off to get back to the life I am accustomed to on my own? Nope never again. This is the first time in my life I’ve owned a home of my own in my name and I worked to blame hard to let anyone take this away from me or mooch off of me.
I also bought me a year ago a 2008 Chevy Silverado pickup. Man I love my truck hasn’t failed me yet like the old used cars I once had in my life. Oh I still have my old 84 pickup truck and am waiting to get this fixed in the next few months so that I can use it as a farm truck. Again one thing at a time, I have to put money back as well as get things done around here. Yes I’ve gotten wiser with my finances as well
I paid off all of my debts two years ago not having a man in my life thus I owe no one anything but my normal everyday bills such as electric, house note, truck note insurance and one credit card. Rest of money goes directly in the bank. Oh I am still helping out my ex husband which I feel obligated to do since he helped me out in a tight spot while I was in Greensboro, Ga, but he is not home all of them time, once every three months for three days, he pays me rent as well in order to have a room. Figured I owed him that much for saving me from the Allen clutches of life and the rip off life I was in at the time with no way out.
Yes I’ve straightened up my life and I am so happy, I am back to living a middle class life once again with out worry now days. As long as I stay smart and not allow a man in my life who wants to come in take it away from me I am good. This is the reason that I am not courting nor do I plan to court any man again. If I do they sure the hell are signing an agreement that they will not even try taking my stuff away from me or use me again. I’ve certainly learned my lesson from Bobby Allen and my ex bo I used to have five years ago. I figured out I rather die a happy woman who has things she alone worked for then to live in misery of a man’s company and depend on a man who can not give me all I’ve given myself in the last five years.. Ha its good that I am not a nympho maniac like Bobby Allen lol I can take it or leave it and at this point and time in my life leave it. At least now I know I can not nor will not be conned again for I see all of the tricks that were used by the last two who I let into my life. God what was I thinking???? Am much smarter now. I got ahead on my own and bettered my life and will stay this way with something to show for all of my hard work and it isn’t a Baby in my arms nor a dumb ass jerk of a husband who supposed to be my mate but only to use me for all I have
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Hope his wife’s daddy is a rich man haa haa haahaahaa haaha for Bobby Allen only goes after people who has money since he can not support himself let alone a baby, he has to steal what he has which is nothing. Who also still lives in a mobile home in Greensboro on Pullman Rd. again is not his, he is renting it..
So this has been my life the last five years, certainly I am not a rich woman, but a very happy woman and I came back to life my self…. I am very happy to say I made it from the clutches of evil and now am a very happy woman. Praise be to the Lord. Thank you Lord I love you my dear precious Lord..
Life is so grand. Haa haa haa Can't hold this country gal down for long. :))
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